OK, I am a complete realist about these things. For some reason, this girl no longer appears to have any interest in me but it comes as a shock due to the fact we had a really good first date:
The date consisted of, drinks and watching Uruguay against Holland (she is Brazilian) at a quiet pub and then the second half was watching Shrek at the Cinema. Pub was fun, learned a lot about each other and the cinema did just involve a lot of flirting, kissing and groping for an hour and a half. We then kissed goodbye at the bus stop and she said I'll text you or you text me.
Now since then I sent her a text 24 hours after. No response. 48 hours after I called no answer or call back. Another text (Stupid I know)
Also I have her on fb but have had no contact.
What would you guys suggest I do next because I am just completely confused about the whole situation. Nothing from the date would have suggested lack of interest on her part but obviously that is how it currently appears to be. Should I just leave it now and move on?
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MEN - you are just as culpable of saying "i had a great time, I'll call you" then not doing anything as women are. Let's not be vindictive here.
For you question asker, don't "drop her." But don't waste your time. What I'm saying here is don't forget she exists, in case she decides to call you (be wary of course if this happens) but don't wait by your phone. If she's interested she will let you know. If it's only been a couple of days (the usual time most people take to hit someone up for a second date).
Go out, find another hot brazilian (they are gorgeous women) and watch this sh*t show that will be the world cup final (with Webb as the ref who sort of doesn't like spain too much in the past) and try things again with someone else.
If someone likes you, they will let you know. If they do not, they will make that clear as well. Go out, have fun. Leave the phone in your pocket or wherever you keep it, but don't bother to check it constantly.0