My past roommate always told me she only dated guys who were obsessed with her. But like in a good way. And now my friend is talking to a guy who she said seems obsessed with her and he's the first one to act like this. Obsessed like he says how pretty she is and how nice she is and talks to her all the time (texting that haven't met yet.) jw if anyone else agrees with this?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like she's a princess that needs subjects to worship her rather than bf's. If she'd the high-maintenance type that gets mad at me just because I was giving my lips a rest for an extra hour and forgot to kiss her feet at lunchtime the relationship is doomed, that would totally get on my nerves real quick.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think it's a good idea. I dated a guy who was the same way. At first he was like a dream come true. We talked 24/7 and he was so good to me. We fell fast and hard for one another. But that led to us moving in together way too fast, it wasn't until then that the obsession side of him was revealed to actually be scary and dangerous. I basically become his barbie doll trapped in the house all day. He switched from being this amazing and caring man to this total psycho. I couldn't go anywhere, I couldn't hang out with friends, even if we were in public and a random guy looked at me, he would accuse me of cheating on him. He had every single one of my social media accounts connected to his phone and I had no idea until way after the fact. GPS tracker on my phone, etc. He was extremely manipulative and emotional abusive. He really messed me up. It took me over a year to get away from him, and even then it tools months for him to stop trying to contact me and following me. I could go on forever but the bottom line is.. That "good" kind of obsession is almost always linked to the worst kind of obsession. If he creeps you out or you have to question if it's normal or not, run fast.0