OK I've always had the advice never have sex on the first date, sends the wrong signal, is this TRUE? I've found lately that I don't even want to kiss guys on the first or second date. Its not that they aren't attractive, its that they don't know how to hold their tongue on the first date. Women don't want to talk about sex on a first date, and most lead to that by making comments about my breast size and than I'm like wth are they only interested in what I look like without a shirt on. So what is the rule for guys, generally on the first or second date?
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You have sex when you know the man or women is the right person for you.
If people started treating others solely based off of past experiences, no one would ever get together.
You shouldn't punish future men for what past men have done to you.
And some women do want to talk about sex on the first date, but usually this depends on the way men go about it.
If a woman is not ready to talk about sex, than the man should not talk about sex.
Men should also not talk about a woman's breasts, they should typically save that for the bedroom.
And let me make this clear so you understand. Looks are primarily what men are interested but its not the only thing.
The most important thing is not the only thing.
So just because a man is super interested in your boobs, don't think that its all he wants.
Thats a common misconception.