Would you date a person with low self esteem or one with a high self esteem?

  • low
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  • high
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  • moderate
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What Girls Said 13

  • High - my man is confident and sometimes a bit cocky, it's a real turn on. Mind you he's still humble enough not to be an ass.

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  • A guy who has self-esteem , but who is also humble. A guy who knows his own worth, but isn't arrogant or above himself

    If it's too high , he'll be egotistical , and probably bordering on a personality disorder.

    If it's too low he'll have unresolved deep- rooted issues which would need to be addressed before entering into a relationship

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    • I agree with you. I think I'm currently dating a guy who's self esteem is too high... He might have a personality disorder, but on the other hand he is a lot of fun.

    • @mpwilke

      Lol enjoy your fun 😜

  • I like it when they are confident in themselves but there is a fine line between loving yourself and being confident and being narcissistic and egotistical. Once it becomes narcissistic then I'm out.

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  • Constantly rejecting a person with low self esteem is not gonna make him feel better, and I would personaly prefer someone insecure over a guy who is overconfident.

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  • I find confidence to be attractive but many people seem rather egotistical than confident. It's sometimes to hard to say.

    But I wouldn't mind being with someone who has low esteem. I'd help them to built it. Moderate seems as the best choice.

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  • High yes low no

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  • Moderate or same level as me.

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  • A moderate self esteem

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  • Moderate or high self esteem. I can't stand men with low self esteem. They're very fickle and can take issue with you being successful.

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  • Definitely high! Confidence is so sexy. He doesn't have to be hot

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  • A person with a realistic sense of self. I don't want someone who believes everything they touch turns to shit. And I don't want someone who thinks they're the super hero the world doesn't need.

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  • Oh please, none of them.

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  • Moderate to high

    I imagine someone with low would be a little needy

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What Guys Said 19

  • low or moderate
    because if the girl is someone with low self esteem I'm sure that she will be putting real efforts, as much as I am or probably more into the relationship
    with moderate it going to be equal or less

    with a high self esteem individual its just equivalent to hacking at your own self esteem because I'd be never good enough for them and I dont think anyone likes that feeling

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  • Low or high. Doesn't matter to me. I feel like if it was high I'd still be able to keep up and if it was really low I'd like to think I could help her build it up, at least to an extent.

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  • A bit higher than moderate because it's what's needed to survive in this world which have a bit high amount of person who low the self esteem of the others.

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  • I like a person who is just confident in herself so yeah.

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  • nobody maintains one level of self esteem. the high esteem H. S. kid isn't the same in college,
    or life, .. the low esteemed may be a Mental Health issue, .. life seems to take unusual acceptance here and upsets everyones apple cart at some point, so bouncing back is the mark of experience in these matters.

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  • Moderate or above.

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  • high self esteem but down to earth.

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  • does not matter for me but if she has a low self esteem i will help her to increase it

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  • each of us as a partner could help each other if one has a low self-esteem the other is there to pick him up when it has high self-esteem is there to guide each other but I would date both

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  • Preferably yeah I’d want someone with a good self esteem

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  • High or moderate is my preference

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  • both

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  • moderate

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  • High

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  • Always high

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  • Moderate, on the lower end. Like me.

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  • Stats show that a lot of women find narcissistic men more attractive...

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  • I like low self esteem damsels who are all stressed out.

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  • I dont date so it doesn't matter to me, as long as she's got a fat ass.

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