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Most Helpful Girl
I don't think anybody should want someone to feel like shit about themselves just so they can feel some kind of personal value and gain from it. Says a lot about the other person who enjoys that. I. e. they're a self centered piece of shit or have low self esteem themselves.1
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Most Helpful Guy
The line between "being a little insecure" and "absolutely pathetic" can get pretty blurry. I think that has to be said right off the bat.
If a girl tends to stress over little stuff about herself, or things that are actually good but she somehow warped it to be negative, it can be really cute.
But if she hates herself to the point where she gets reckless or she's unable to show affection in the relationship because she doesn't feel attractive (despite my constant attempts to show her otherwise), there's where I take issue.1