Do you think relationships should be fair? Money wise, split the bills evenly and help one another? I have a friend who has been with a guy for over 6 years and she's always short in money because she makes significantly less then her SO. He makes about twice as much as she does. They have been living together for three years trying to get pregnant but he doesn't help her pay any bills. She has to do it all on half the salary. To me if you're trying to build a future with someone, wouldn't it be best to help one another? She's constantly unable to even get an oil change on her car and he won't even offer to help. He does help his family which his dad makes good money but she doesn't get any help from him. Do you think this is fair? What if they have a child and things don't change?
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I don't like the word "fair." I do like each partner contributing according to their abilities. But it does't matter what is "fair." If your partner is not contributing according to their capacity and you are displeased, it really doesn't matter whether anyone thinks it is unfair.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE