So I have been on an online dating site and have been talking back and fourth with 3 guys. They are all great and seem to each have great qualities about them all. So my question is I have met one of them and We really hot it off and have plans to do more things. I am happy with him, is it unfair of me not to give theses other 2 a chance? I have been talking to the other 2 the same amount of time and have even canceled a date with one to be with him. How do I make the texting everyday stop with out hurting someone? I am not the kind of person to ghost... and then I have reservations because of something happens with me and this guy I could be missing out on a really great guy... dating sucks
Most Helpful Guy
"How do you let a man down gently?"
You don't. Any time someone is turned down, in the back of their mind, there will always be the nagging question of "am I not good enough?", unless they are confident enough in themselves to where rejection is a non-issue. This goes for both boys and girls.
Dating sucks, that's life.0
Most Helpful Girl
Don't dismiss the other guys so readily. At this moment you aren't tied down. If it gets more serious w/the other guy, then do not lead the others on. I used to feel bad continuing to date other guys after a good 1st date w/one guy. After experiencing disappointment in dating though, I understood why doing this is not wrong. There were a couple guys who I went on 2 or 3 dates w/. I was super excited about them, but they didn't want what I wanted. Don't hang your hopes on one guy (yes hard to do, I know), explore your options until you become exclusive or promise not to see others. I did that w/my current boyfriend, we became exclusive after a couple weeks, but I was still talking to guys as I was 1st getting to know him.0
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