I'm quiet and shy, but never get approached. I'm a nice girl, and I'm proud of that. But why don't I ever get approached. I feel like I'll finish last.
Most Helpful Guy
It is probably more that you don't look open to being approached. We all have a resting posture and if yours is more closed off than the rest of the girls that you are with then you will be approached less because you don't look open to being asked.
Try to have more of a resting open posture and smile more when you ant to be approached otherwise it is going to take a very brave man to attempt approaching you or you will have to spend a lot off time getting to know a guy who might fall for you.
usually nice quiet women take off slower but finish stronger.2
Most Helpful Girl
It's not the nice part, it's the shy part. Most shy people don't realize that they appear unapproachable. If you avert your eyes, never smile, don't make eye contact, or show signs of intrigue or interest, nowadays few men will approach you, because you seem like you don't want to be.4