So there's a guy I met at college who is done now and working but I'm still taking classes. I've tried asking him out because he's shy but it interferes with his work schedule so I believe he wants to go out when I have my college break which is a week long so he can decide what day works for him and then I'm completely free.
This will be my first date ever and I'm also shy, as I said, he is too now, and he wasn't that shy before. We talked before and hung out a bit at college, before I showed interest in him (I could tell he really likes me) but I think knowing it's a date would make me feel awkward since I've never been on one and we are both not that chatty and don't know each other that well. I don't know what we will do. We might decide when that time comes.
Most Helpful Guy
Just be yourself, take it easy and roll with the punches. Treat him like you would a friend, and let it evolve from there.0
Most Helpful Girl
You can't because both of you are just awkward people. And it's fine.^^
Overall, please remember what the goal of this date is. To find out who you both are as people and whether or not you two share the same goals, views, morals about love, sex, etc. Don't drink!!! You don't want to make the wrong impression if he doesn't like girls drinking. If you feel you aren't ready then be honest and tell him. Just make sure both of you aren't getting emotionally attached so quickly, and you get whatever it is that you need to ask out the way just in case he is not for you.0