so I'm 19years old and I've never been attracted to boys my age, I've always seen them as immature and annoying... I've also very rarely found boys that are 2-5 Yeats older than me interesting unless you exclude guys like zac effron and Justin beiber... I've always found men that are much older than me attractive and very appealing. .. now that I'm 19 my age range is men that are between 35-50 and i honestly see nothing wrong with it.
what draws me to these men though isn't their money or their ability to buy me things (not a gold digger ). but rather their ability to be stable and the fact that they have experienced life and won't fuck around like they say what they mean and they won't beat around the Bush...
my dad is 53 ... and a friend of mine pointed out how would my dad feel and how what I'm feeling i am attracted to is actually wrong...
so just based on what I've said please help ease my conciounce...
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There's nothing wrong with being into older men.
There may be something wrong with some older men who are into younger women, but that wasn't your question.
A few things.
Some guys your own age (or even in their late 20s) ARE serious. They are usually the more introverted ones, but they are there.
Also, some older guys are just immature younger guys that have aged.
One thing to consider, the older guys that are serious will be very cautious about dating someone that is still in college.
Too much of an imbalance in life stages at that point.
It's possible that you are working and very mature, but those older guys will not seek you out.
There will be older guys that seek you out, but probably not the ones you really want.
Get yourself through college and then at 22, 35 isn't so bad.
And spend some time looking for those quieter serious guys also.
Give them a chance also. Remember, it's not the age you are attracted to, it's the maturity. So look for that.1