Most Helpful Guy
Nono don't let his bs foold you. That's his addiction talking so he can get access to more funds
You are doing the right thing 100% not even a shadow of a doubt. He's your boyfriend not your hubby. And even then id be skepticle4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He's probably thinking you are using an account for secret money, but you are wise to want to have your own account. Just so that he's not feeling as though you are stashing away money to make a sudden dash to Jamaica, you can just tell him it's a savings account that you can't easily take money from (dinged with fees if you try), or something so that he understands that you are saving and not taking it out.
If you both bank at the same institution it makes it easier if you have to move money around. If he has his own savings, and you have yours and it's on one main account, then you both can see what's going on with your money online - but have the accounts set up where you can't transfer funds online. Then you can pool the rest of the money together in one account for your bills and living expenses.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE