My boyfriend is pressuring me to lose weight. What should I do? (Page 2)
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120 is a really nice size. Pretty slim actually. 160 is chubby and 180+ is fat. I think you both are over reaching over this.
yea anyone that pressures you into changing yourself is not someone you want to be with. look into your relationship before looking into changing yourself. and wanting to focus on school and work is nothing to feel bad about
What the hell is that guy... just tell him to fuck off seriously. None have to tell you what to do if you are fine with it.
friend... you want weight lost and you need to weight lost.. so lost your weight for your self not only for your boyfriend
You should weigh yourself and see how much for sure. If you don't want to change, then don't. Be ready to break up.
Are you for real? You're telling her to break up over such a small thing? Pfft jealous single guys
@killer4212 How am I jealous? If she is getting fat, she should lose weight. If she doesn't want to it's better for her to break up so that allows her boyfriend to find someone better.
Don't listen to your boyfriend. It sounds like you're at a healthy weight. 120 isn't very much.
Lose the boyfriend. 120 just cannot be overweight unless you are a migit.
Ok, I'm still a kid so maybe my advice won't be the wisest but I would say to ditch him.
lose weight for your own self, otherwise it won't work.
Figure out how much your boyfriend weighs and lose that much "weight".
Do you actually need to lose weight or is it more about toning up?
Exercise and eat healthy, exercise will also help you in studies, will strengthen your mind.
suggest he loose some too, from the neck up.
If you don't act in some way to show him that his preference for you (skinnier) is being taken seriously he'll find a girl who matches that.
The only weight you need lost is him. If he doesn't like how you look get rid of him.
take his advice. he wants u healthy. when he stops caring, thats when you should worry
Depends how often he says that to you. Plus a person who tells you to have a healthy body isn't bad
She says she isn't obese and also states that she has body dysphoria in which case he should realize that telling her to alter her looks in any way, shape or form is just a kick in the gut for her.
I think so what you want to do but if he's presuring u, u should dump him. He's meant to love you for who you are not change u into someone he wants you to be
No guy should tell his woman to lose weight unless it is for health reasons.
if you want to, then do it
otherwise just be as you are