For me it has to be both the initial attraction has to exist but personality makes me stay
Personality or looks?
What Guys Said 24
I've found millions of women to be attractive. All sorts of body types and ethnicities to be honest. Beauty is very very common. Personality is the differentiator. Makes someone unique. Personality also ensures longevity, if you want anything long term or lasting. Personality is the main driver for me. Looks are obviously important, but most people look fairly normal. Unless you have a tree trunk growing out from your head, you'll be fine. Personality for me.1
Personality. With the only 2 crushes I had I liked her after having a real deep conversation with her. So yes i see girls that I think are pretty but I'd like to get to know them before I go out with them.1
Well both you can't choose someone who isn't attractive to you and ofc you can't date someone who you think is a bad person1
Personality because I believe that looks are part of overall personality.2
My girlfriend has both in spades but I'd say that personality is what really counts; I'm in love with who she is not just what she looks like.1
Both I'll say. And mind that both changes. Looks change for sure but personality may change too.
Looks might fade away but personality remains even after death of that person. So, obviously Personality with no second thoughts2
First time, its the looks. Eventually, you have to combine them and weigh it in to see if it's worth it.1
Looks flat out have to be there at the start but yeah personality means everything after the initial attraction part.1
I say Personality I hate it when people judge someone on looks2
For me it is the same, looks attract, personality makes me fall in love and stay1
Personality matters lot to me. I don't judge a girl based on her looks.0
both of course1
Couldn't agree more. 😊1
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What Girls Said 3
same. i need some spark1
A good balance of both. You can be physically attractive, but lacking in other ways and vice versa1
We are attracted by looks the first, then you can learn more his/her personality.1
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