I went out on a date Tuesday. I thought we had a good time. We ended up cuddling on his couch and watching TV (which I had no problem with especially since he was on call for his job at the hospital). He kept tickling me to get me to sit closer and like I said we cuddled. Also he kissed me! He put no other moves on me but he kept kissing me lol. I was like OK this guy is into me. So it was around 11 and he started yawning and I asked if I should go because he seemed tired. He said no half hour more you can stay.
When I left he said he would text me tomorrow...that was three days ago now...
But yesterday I text him and said "just wanted to say hi, you're probably sleeping. ttylr" (it was 12 am when I text him)
He replied "Sorry meant to text you yesterday but I've had 18 hr days here so far. How are U?"
I know he went on a business trip and then from there is on a mini vacation with his family.
What should I do? I don't want to keep texting him because I think that's annoying and clingy. Is he trying to like...ignore me? lol so I'll go away? lol please help!
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I will say that 90% of the time when a guy says he's busy, he's busy. You're not his girlfriend, so (and no offence) but you're not his first priority. The fact that he works at a hospital and barely has enough time to take a mini vacay with his family already tells you this guy has a hectic life. He definitely sounds interested, so I'd say wait it out. For all you know, anything could have happened in his life/with his phone. If you haven't heard from him in 2 weeks, move on. For now, be patient and DO NOT be clingy. He needs to know that you are the type of girl that understands his busy schedule, so that if you do ever become his girlfriend, you won't be harrassing his phone constantly when he could be really busy. Wait it out. Good luck!3