Independent as in she doesn't always want to do things with you but has her own set of hobbies , her own friends. Not the clingy type at all
How do guys feel about it?
I feel like its a turn off because the guys I've dated dont seem too fond of it and my female friends who love doing everything or a lot of the things with their siginifcant other are in serious and loving relationships.
Most Helpful Guy
When a woman is independent it means she has a certain level of healthy pride that comes from being without guilt or shame of yourself, and with a healthy type of love for yourself.
This is actually the best state a person can be in. If a person isn't attracted to this, they are NOT in this state. A person can be attracted to a woman and not be in this perfect state of mind, but a person who not attracted to this type of woman will NEVER be in this state... ANYWAYS...
once a woman realizes she's her own person despite what society or people friends even family tells her she "should" do and she starts doing what she wants to.. that's a pretty rare type of person and that woman has a beautiful soul.
SO Of course I love that.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it takes finding the right person who is ok having basically separate lives and coming together when suitable and knowing when independent becomes distant and aloof so they can reconnect.
Personally it's not for me, I love doing things with my spouse and though we spend so much time together all of its treasured.
But we have a friend couple and they're like this... it genuinely baffled me that they could do so many things separately and enjoyed being alone so often or doing bigger things with friends instead of each other.
But they're so happy, they've been together almost 10 years and even marriage and a baby hasn't changed their independence. It's just what they need and they're completely fulfilled by it even though I can't personally relate to it - it works!
Just have to find the matching person who feels the same way0