And before people start saying "Maybe he's gay" or something, Kevin is bi and has stated this before to people. And before people say anything, to me a transgender person is who they say they are, and if someone says they are male even before and after transition then I fully respect that and call them whatever they desire to be called. So, if people are telling me another thing, just know I support people who feel like they're another gender.
Maybe some of you, have experience with this yourselves, maybe know some people that are or just have a lot of knowledge on the situation. All I knows is, it can be tough for some people going through this because maybe their families aren't supportive or other things and I would like as much advice as possible.
Most Helpful Guy
first thing I would advise you is to be a strong advocate for the fact that gender is fluid. Treat him as a person and know that everyone is different and that's completely okay. Talk to him how he feels about gender roles.
Secondly, don't ignore his past because that is a part of him and it's okay to accept that. Do however know his triggers.
For example, a friend of mine was dating a trans Man and used to always say Bye Falicia when he would leave. little did my friend know his name was Falicia before the transition so it was pretty insulting.
lastly, know their insecurities. Find out what things are hard for him to accept about himself and accept them for him tell him how he's handsome or how you're proud of him!6THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
If you guys have sex and he already went through the transition you can expect that you guys will actually be able to have sex (unlike popular belief). You see, they insert this rod into the penis that can turn straight (a boner).
However let me be clear. Those who go through the transition may heavily regret it (not all of them regret it but some do) . The suicide rate can go higher if this situation happens. So he may or may not want to go through the whole transition which is okay. Just love him as a person if you have the ability to (not everybody can do this).5THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE