I'm going on a first date with this guy I think we're going to meet up at a coffee shop, I want to pay for my coffee. Should I? Or should I let him pay for it if he offers? I
Most Helpful Guy
If I asked a woman out and she demanded to pay for herself, I would be hurt and offended. That means she really had no desire to go on a date with me.
Whoever asked for the date should pay the 1st time. Then the other person should pay the next time. Or he pays for the first part of the date and then if you go to a 2nd location, you pay there.2
Most Helpful Girl
There's no problem in you paying for your own stuff. It means your independent and not afraid of being your own woman. Don't get me wrong, I'm not bad mouthing the women who let men pay, go all for it, I'm just saying you don't have to live by the old time rules where men should pay.2
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