What would you do if you fall in love with two people?
What Girls Said 25
I'm in this situation actually. Right in your shoes.. Or very close. I'm in love with two different people right now. And, I'm technically dating both of them.. I'm in an open relationship with the guy and in an "exclusive" relationship with the girl. They both know about this and know eachother and are okay with it all. It's a bit complicated for ME though. Since I care deeply about both of them and couldn't stand it if I ever broke either of their hearts. So I'm being extremely careful and open and honest with both of my partners and we work everything out together. They're really great and I just honestly love them so much! I'm really relieved that they both understand how I feel about all of this and the situation in general etc. I don't know too much about your specific situation, but I definitely think that it's okay to love more than one person. It's just who you are and what has happened.. Don't listen to everyone who's telling you to simply "pick one".. It doesn't really work like that with love.. As unfortunate as that is.. You're still going to love both of them regardless.. So what I recommend is talking to both of them about the situation and getting their feedback. Do you know if they love you back? Stuff like that etc. if they both claim to love you back then they should be able to understand how you feel and you can work out a plan of some sort together. My plan is that I'm going to date my girlfriend up until I meet the guy, then go on a "break" of transition to an "open relationship" and then date the previous guy who I was in an open relationship with. I don't think I could ever "pick" either of them.. Or it's just extremely hard to tell at this point in time.. But there's definitely no rush about any of this. I'm just going with the flow and working out all the little problems that arise with my partners. And we're all really open and working on this together. If you want specific advice on what to do feel free to ask me and give me some more details I can help come up with a plan! You can pm me if that'll be more comfortable for you or simply just continue here! :) I hope this helps!!1
It would never happen. If I'm in love with one person then I can't fall in love with another, I wouldn't be open to it. If it were to happen though, I'd stick with the original person I fell in love with because the grass is rarely ever greener on the other side.1
Take the 2nd one. Because if I was truly in love with the first one, I wouldn't have fallen in love with the 2nd one.5
you don't love the first person then, if you did you wouldn't have fallen for someone else or get involved with someone else!2
you choose the 2nd one bc if you would have loved the 1st one you wouldn't have fallen in love with the 2nd one3
hi could you give a little more detail on each one and the relationship with them? xx0
Then u r extremely rare. Bcoz many guys r unable to fall in luv even with one person.1
Have a serious conversation with both and see how it could be fair to both of them. U?0
No possible, at least for me.0
Yeah i also interested with another male friends, am attracted by his personality but at the same time I dont want something bad happen.0
i'll do sex with both of them :D0
there's one thing of keeping options open... and there's another where it's a love triangle. But it's rare for one person to like 2 at same time. you should make up your mind because the times of polygamy are long gone...0
I would make pros and cons lists. I actually would enjoy the process of picking one1
What Guys Said 15
In my experience if you honestly think you're in love with two people, then you're really not in love with either. They're both attractive options, but you haven't developed true love for either one.
Anytime I've fallen in love with a girl it was never a question in my mind. I've liked a few girls at the same time before, but I wasn't in love with all of them. Thats something very different.0
i begin my metamorphism process and begin to divide into two distinct different people.0
you love your girlfriend but have feelings for another if you want to do the morale thing stick to. your girlfriend the 2nd might not even feel the same about you besides thats cheating0
introduce them to each other.0
Never has happened0
Choose one of them0
gorillas tend to have multiple partners they stay with for life.
they say we share somewhere around 98% of our genes with them so I guess that means it's scientifically normal for a human to want or have multiple wives0
I'd ask them to marry me and the we can live happily ever after,
I'm in that cart.
You do nothing.0
enjoy wid both0
analyse the two girls and see which ones a better "fit' for me and then see if she's interested0
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