There's a guy interested in me but I don't feel attracted to him. He's a good guy though and he's nice to talk to. Should I give it a shot or not? We're in the same friend group, so I don't want it to be awkward either.
Most Helpful Guy
Attraction can grow over time. More so with women compared to men as we are the more visual gender. But I wouldn't get into a relationship with him yet but see if that attraction can grow. I know it's very hard to describe and probably try to not force it or risk it. But go slow and see what happens for awhile. Whats the harm?1
Most Helpful Girl
I've had an experience where I wasn't attracted to a guy initially but he was trying to pursue me so i was talking to him. I fell in love with his personality and so his looks followed. I eventually became attracted to him, but i didn't get into a relationship until I found myself physically attracted to him. With this being said, this has only happened to me once. I think it is safer just to stick with people you are attracted to. If he is your friend, its likely that if you aren't already attracted to him, you won't be.1