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This happened to me just a month ago or so. A girl I was dating, contacted me again. It was a weird relationship, if you could call it that. We met at the club and had some sexual experiences with one another afterward that were pretty hot. I hung out at her place at times, usually before we went out to clubs. I met her dad and he was pretty good with me. I guess maybe I started to act a bit differently because I didn't want it to seem like I just always wanted to get sexual with her, but it didn't come across correctly to her (thinking back on how it went on reflection). Anyhow, we started hanging less together, and then she flirted more with other guys at the club. In the end things ended, mutually, but sort of abruptly.
Fast forward to last month. She found me on Facebook and said that she missed me and hated how things ended with me. She was apparently looking for me on there. The problem is that I'm at a different point in my life and I also thought about how it ended with us. I guess the point here is that perhaps in my heart somewhere I wanted to try again, but also I would be hurting someone else if I did and the fact that I have a family of my own right now, would make things disastrous. But yeah, I did feel we were good together, just our timing wasn't good before. She was younger and we were at differing points in our life back then. The same thing was present now as well.
I just believe that we have many people that come into our lives that are potentials, or there is way more than one person that are potentials to be right for us. But it's all about the timing of our lives that make them perfectly right for us.1
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