Hey All,

Long story short got crushed a few years back, now seeing a nice girl with about 6 months, all going well. No pressure its nice and relaxed and we really enjoy spending time together.

thing is I tend to get a bit paranoid in the day/days leading up to a date and get very nervous, I almost convince myself its over with.

What the hell, is this just me or am I normal?

Id like answers from both guys and girls, and what's the solution to the problem? Does it just go away eventually?

Thanks for any help,


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  • Lots of people get nervous or feel distressed after a traumatic event. People have different reactions. You feel nervous and paranoid because your ex meant so much to you. Eventually, it will go away since wounds heal.