Girls, Would it be a problem to date a guy who slept with over 300 women?

[JDM2Brah]

This a dre, he is a adult film actor. This guys is paid handsomely to preform in adult films. Meaning to do things like maintain erections for hours and please women on demand and direction. He's gets paid for his performance and to cream pie women who are (in their own right) successful beautiful and strong independent women.Is their anything wrong with his behavior? Would it be a problem for you to date/sleep with him?

[tarrycat]

Unfortunately, yes. My moral code goes against everything that this guy does.

I don't think highly of people who do these things, but then again, who am I to judge? I will be honest & say that it's how I feel, but I'm not here to criticise people for the choices they have made; nobody makes perfect choices.

There should be women out there who would be fine with it. Not every woman thinks alike. My standards just happen to be different.

[Richareens]

I don't want a fuckboy. I'd never date a guy who has fucked tons of girls before. Such dudes can fuck off for all I know if they were to ask me out.

[JDM2Brah]

What if he is nice and loyal to you?

[Richareens]

No thanks. Still not interested.

[JDM2Brah]

Ah okay, you just don't like those kind of guys. Understandable. Is it primarily an insecurity thing or something else?

[Richareens]

Yeah I know I can't trust him 100%. Also, just like many dudes won't date prostitutes, same goes for me.

[JDM2Brah]

Ouch, I don't think I am a prostitute. :( thanks for your honest opinion though

[Richareens]

Well sorry to be harsh buddy but that's reality. Not every woman are going to want to date such.

[JDM2Brah]

Thanks for your opinion

[Juneberry91]

No one is safe in this word if your a virgin something’s wrong with you, if you had to much sex something is wrong with you.

That being said asking me I personality would not feel comfortable with that because if my intention is to long term & have a Monogamous relationship his career would not be Aline with that. Let’s say that if this guys goals are the same I would be at a disagreement with that.

He needs love like everyone else out & it’s out there for him.

[sage2021]

A problem? You call this a date? What would the purpose be of having sex with this guy? Maybe a death by sex from nasty infections. I would spray him with my pepper spray if he even tried to have sex with me.

[SitaDevi]

For me yes...

[JDM2Brah]

ah okay, may I ask why?

[SitaDevi]

Well first off, having been with so many women what would make it special for him when he is with me other than the fact that I am not one of the women he have ever been before but let's be real the sexual encounters would not be unique or different... The only thing that would stand out now is personality, secondly a girl doesn't care much about a guys past sexual encounters if it's like nothing more than 20 but 300 would be a hard figure to swallow, because women generally have insecurities so we may think little of ourselves (maybe) and/or we may not be able to focus much when having sex because we would study the 300 other women he plunged into. Finally STDs man.

[JDM2Brah]

Thats interesting, I thought women didn't care about a mans sexual past, since women are always getting crap about their pasts.. then I thought they would understand. The girls would be nothing to worry about if he's loyal right? The most that has happened was unprotected sex between the two performers. I guess since the videos are online that would make it easier to stumble upon and focus on the women who he had sex with and get bothered over it. The STD thing is taken care off. He is actually clean, since the industry requires that he be in order to preform. Porn performers are actually safer on average than the general population because of the rigorous testing standards

[SitaDevi]

You may be right about the STD part, I would assume they would try to keep there employees safe, but there is the matter of a girl feeling insecure women generally have that, and you're right about girls once they trust and love a guy it doesn't matter but it takes a bit longer for that girl to develop trust because it circles back to insecurities"what if he had better than me?" Or "would he leave me of he gets board because he probably have experience better?" Shit like that

[SitaDevi]

And one of the major points is knowing why the individual get into the porn industry...

[JDM2Brah]

Ah, you make sense. Thank you for your opinion

[SitaDevi]

You're most welcome and why did you ask?

[JDM2Brah]

I just wanted an opinion since I am going to dating soon. I seem to be getting harsh replies, can't lie it hurts a bit.

[SitaDevi]

You know the main thing is insecurities because even though women don't admit it we do watch porn, and girls on there makes us feel like shit about our bodies... So knowing a guys slepts with that many "perfect bodies" it is kind of hard now you have to prove to the girl she is beautiful regardless or beauty is only skin deep that type of shit (unless you like women to be perfect too then,... You need to hunt some more)

[JDM2Brah]

Really? I felt like I slept with women who were average. Like those women in those pictures (Lea, Michelle and Ashley) yes they are some of the more beautiful women I have worked with, but I am not someone who thinks women have to perfect. Perfection doesn't exist, we all have our flaws. I was just worried about the fact that women might hold against me the women that I have worked with and get jealous of the women and the passionate sex we have on screen. That isn't real life and nothing beats the women you like/love.

[SitaDevi]

Omg have you actually watch those girls they are more beautiful than me, not saying I hate myself, chill, just realistically speaking omg 🤣 you called them average... You know what regular girls with think calling those beauties average we will feel like a zero... Don't do that tip number one man...

[SitaDevi]

Listen off the bat women will think this is bad for various reasons few of them, would actually understand once you explain everything you just did to me, see women are more into emotions and communication and my friend with this, you have a lot of communication in the future

[JDM2Brah]

No I meant personality wise. Sorry, I haven't been forthcoming. I am Dre, I was jus asking a hypothetical question because I didn't want to let the users know it was me I was posting about. (but my Avi is a pic of me and that gives it away lol). I don't mean looks wise. Looks only last for so long. When your old you won't be able to rely on attraction. They are beautiful women, I am just saying. Attraction is only needed initially, then you get to know a person better. I didn't mean to call them that and disrespect my coworkers.

[SitaDevi]

No man you calling beautiful women average makes me feel like shit

[SitaDevi]

Hahahaha but seriously if no one hasn't figure out that you're dre, these people in this app are dumb... Because I knew it was you before answering

[SitaDevi]

May I ask a personal question you could ignore or say no, but why did you enter into pornography?

[JDM2Brah]

Why does it make you feel like shit? I apologize, I didn't mean to make you feel like that. You seem really cool, I bet your beautiful too. Trinidad has some beautiful women.

[JDM2Brah]

I didn't think it was obvious lol. Shows how oblivious I am

[SitaDevi]

I don't remember saying I was from Trinidad 🙄 wait how did you know... I am average well at least I thought I was until you call them beautiful women average thanks that's going to take a while to digest... Lol don't apologize for it though, your thoughts are your own personal thoughts never apologize for it!!!

[JDM2Brah]

Your profile Lol I followed you. Well thanks for your opinion. It wasn't to bad, only feeling a bit hurt but I will get over it. I need you as my advisor for what to do with women, navigating this dating stuff has got me scared to jump into dating.

[SitaDevi]

Uhhhhhh email me, sitasumintrasingh@gmail. com

[SitaDevi]

That's the closest of personal information I can share with you to contact me on this app

[SitaDevi]

However I have no problem helping you but please do know my opinion on what to do is my personal opinions and may not always be helpful remember everyone is different so it would not always apply however I can help you with self doubt, because there are ways of dealing with situations your choice I don't mind being your friend or advisor whatever term suits you best

[JDM2Brah]

I asked this question in the first place because I have been scared about putting myself out there. I have been getting rejected, and I particularly asked this gal out and I would like your advise on how to explain it to her, trying not to mess up anything. I don't want you divulging personal information on here. So can I just give you me email, and you can reach out to me? I would appreciate your help

[SitaDevi]

I already sent my email but sure why not

[JDM2Brah]

oh I didn't see it. I am going to send you a message.

[JDM2Brah]

I sent you an email

[SitaDevi]

I responded

[EmyyWolf]

That guy ain’t even that hot. He looks ok.
He looks average to Almost Hot.
But 300 People? 🤮🤮🤮

That guy most have everything in the Book. That guy must have:

The Black Plague 😂 Ebola 😂, Parasites 😂, Mad Cow Disease, Monkey Pocks, 😂 The Zombie Virus 😂 Rabies 😂Corona, Everything 😂

Yeah… No thanks. That’s a hard PASS for me. Who knows where that thing has been honestly 🤮 No offense.

And us as women can catch Cancer from HPV, or we can go infertile from Gonorrhea & Chlamydia. You men could literally end us, 💀 with your diseases that you love to speard. No thanks 😷💊💊🌡️

Go back to the streets were you belong. Why do you think people hate cheaters and can’t stand XXX actors. It’s not for no reason.

I once fell in love with a guy who was a lot like Daddy Yankee The Puerto Rican singer, his face was like Brad Pitt. He looked like an action figure. Super fit. He had the tough NewYorker accent. He was from New York. He was basically a Nuyorican who don’t speak any Spanish. The best example of him is that one XXX actor Bruno D! ckemz 👈 but way more handsome and Brat Pitt -ish. Or JohnTravolta- ish.

This guy.. no joke. Was getting women left and right like if they’re nothing. Voice deep as thunder. Masculine AF! Women literally were chasing after him like he were the last male on Earth.
I was so obsessed with him not gonna lie. Literally appeared like some sort of celebrity to me.

But the more I realized that he sleeps with about 56 girls every year. That makes almost 500 bodies from the moment he started f-king. That just makes you wonder what BS he must be carrying. 🤮

For me to spread my legs all the way open. I do want to be insanely attracted. But I also want to feel comfortable and safe with the male. 500 bodies, 500 partners doesn't sound safe at all. That sounds like the Zombie Infection Virus 🤮.

Not only that, but 300 or 500 bodies means you’ve had it all. You’ve had the best and the worst. I’m gonna be NOTHING to you. You already played the video game. And soon you’re gonna go bored with me. You need the next one to feel alive again. A relationship to someone like this would be very depressing and boring.

My only suggestion is for a male like that if he even considered a relationship, to find a woman of his level. High desirability, and 300 bodies +. 😬😬 yikes

[EmyyWolf]

Unfortunately, as much as I was insanely attracted to him, sexually attracted to him. He made me feel insanely nervous and embarrassed. He made me dream over him. I was obsessed and I could even say I kind of fell in love. This guy was targeting me next. And as much as I wanted to experience love making with him. My better judgment just wouldn’t allow it. I led him on, winked at him. But I never slept with him. We worked 3 years together, and it was the best 3 years of my life. And that was that. He had F-Ked one of my friends, and she caught HPV from him. 😢 she even cheated on her husband for this Brad Pitt. But I can’t blame her for sleeping with him. I just can’t blame her 😢.

[avery58]

Yes, I wouldn't

[ElGato31]

Yes. He is used up. Probably with massive issues regarding to romantic relationships. No, thanks.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Never. I think it's disgusting.

[JDM2Brah]

Damn :( whats so disgusting about it?

[TheMoroccangirl]

That he had intercourse with several other women? Sounds nasty af.

[JDM2Brah]

But isn't it normal to have had a sexual past? I thought women didn't care about a mans sexual past, since women are always getting crap about their pasts.. then I thought they would understand.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yeah, but I'm a virgin on purpose (I've been rejecting sexual stuff for a goal). Sure if the one I date has a bit of experience, it's alright (even though I prefer a virgin). This much is just plain disgusting. I do care about a man's sexual past, and I won't date someone who has had too many sexual partners. I have also a good past to add.

[JDM2Brah]

Ah okay. Makes sense, I wish you the best with your goal. Even though it was kinda hurtful to hear though.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Thanks, my apologies for that, it's just what I think. I highly value morals. You'll find a girl, trust me, there are enough who are okay with it (especially girls who've had a lot of sexual partners).

[JDM2Brah]

Thank you. I think its cool that you are waiting, that seems rare in this day and age. You are definitely a strong woman for that.

[DermalPunch]

I don't care for promiscuous men.

[BaddieBunny12]

Yes to me it is

[JDM2Brah]

Damn :( Can you maybe explain why?

[BaddieBunny12]

Std's and just knowing that he'd rather make money doing sex work instead of finding something else he's passionate about. Just my opinion

[CateM]

He'd better keep his motor clean