Thanks !! :)
No problem 😃!! Us women need to step up and make a move too, not just men, let's try not to live in the sexist past lol or some fairy tale too. In high school, i had guts to ask my guy friend to homecoming and he said yes, we had a good time lol. Also, I'm not gonna sit like a flower, waiting forever for the men to be like bees to pick me, that's ridiculous lol. Rejection is part of life, facing our fears makes us stronger
You're completely right. I'm gonna have to be braver and just go with it!! :)
Yasssssssssss go get it girl!!! Lol
I'm going!! Lol
That's true but how do i play it off if he says no? Bc my feelings will be a little hurt
Perhaps how you'll be able to play it off is in how you ask. Ask casually so it's not a big deal if he says no, or I guess it will be easier to hide your feelings.
Okay thanks! :)
Very true and I should ask him to his face not a text , right?
to his face yes
Okie dokie, thanks
Should I just play it off if he says no... or what do I do?
Omg that's perfect! Thanks
Couldn't have said it better myself. Just what I was thinking
Okay I'll try it :)
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I will. I'm not sure if I'll see him tonight or tomorrow
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Yes, ask him - by the way.
Well I'd still be smiling cause I wouldn't frown at her wedding. LolNo I don't but I guess I should make one
I don't know if there will be or not
If you really want him to come with you, offer a "supprise" if he goes
A surprise? I don't understand like... what?
You treat him to a night out, a movie, anything that perks his intrests.
Okay I can do that :)
Good luck to you
I figured it's just a wedding. Good food and drinks, dancing fun times. I want him to go with me, there's no pressure
ya exactly, i'm guessing your stubborn about this?
I'm not sure what you are referring to. It's my friend's wedding and I wasn't sure if I should ask him or not
stubborn as in you are traditional as in you feel it's the guys job
The guys job to accompany me to a wedding?
no, as in guys job to make the first move, ask the girl out first
Oh yea I guess so, but I'm not like stubborn about it?
so you have never asked a guy out before?
Hmmm as in a first date? No I don't think so
did your parents bring you up very traditionally?
Yes they did
I'll be so happy if he goes with me it will seriously make my day
Okay I'll ask. Face to face yea?
Of course. With confidence!
Like how do you ask with confidence? Bc I'll be hurt if he says no
That's what I mean. Don't feel hurt, feel like it's his loss. Expect a yes and the advice I would have is to make sure you choose your boyfriend, don't let them choose you. If he says no. Move on..
That's like turning the tables... okay I'll have to get in the right mind set cause right now I'd be hurt... lol
Okay should I do it via text or wait until I see him?
Do it in person
Okay so we'll have to wait a couple of days. How do I bring it up?
Say you're going to a wedding and you were hoping he might want to join you as your plus one.
okay that's easy enough
Okay but I'm nervous
I totally get that. Just explain the situation to him. Tell him you don't think you will know many people there. Or add in that you thought you could get to know each other better.
Those are both really good ideas thank you!
Sometimes a wedding can seem a bit to much for a first date. But when we are in our 30s the right guy should look past that and see the bigger picture.
Well it wouldn't be a first date. I just didn't know if it was too serious or something. Plus he's 40
If he gets hung up on the fact that it's a wedding then he may not be worth your time in the long run.
Hmmm that's a good point
What if he says it's because he doesn't want to get dressed up?
Do you want him to get dressed up for other events down the road?
Yeah if need be. I mean he always dresses nice and does his hair and stuff like that anyway but this requires like next level of dressing up if that makes sense
Yes you do. Think about if he answers a question or says something think about how you will feel about him giving you that answer all the time.
Okay that makes sense. I think I know where you're going with that.
Are you afraid of him saying something else?
no I'm afraid of him saying no I don't like to hear that. So sometimes I refrain from asking or saying what's on my mind for fear of the answer no or rejection
I won't talk to women for the same reason.
Well I've had someone say no all the time
Life is all about being happy and sad so just go for it
True but it makes me nervous and I'll be sad if he says no
Okay I will
Dosent matter what he says.But the best part is you will get to know the truth
Best of luck
Well... that's true