So this guy and I have been talking since June. He even told his friend when we all hung out that he liked me, and his friend asked me if I liked him and I said yeah. Okay so, we were texting and then one night he didn't text me back, so I texted him again, and he didn't text me back...again. Although, we keep talking through comments on facebook and liking each others' statuses, and some of them were sexual.
Three days ago, he comes up to my work to see his friend whose my manager there. And the thing is, she kept trying to embarrass me in front of him, saying "You look like you're sweating," and she was pretty much yelling at me to get off work. Then she told my friend that she read our facebook conversation and she messaged him telling him to not mess with her cashier. My friend asked him if he was gonna listen and he said probably not. So after I got off work we sat down in the lobby talking and then my manager, his friend, came over and just started talking to us, while we were in the middle of a conversation. The funny thing is, after I left he left too. My friend asked her if he talked about me and she said no, and that from what she saw he doesn't like me. She didn't see anything, where we sat, you can't see us. So is she jealous?
Yesterday we both went to a concert. I saw him and he said hey, but he was in the other line and I said hey back. About 3 hours later he called me and told me to come find him, so I did. His friends were there and we all started talking and he pinched my butt, kept messing with me and everything. Then about an hour after it was over he texted me saying how sore he was, I replied. I didn't get a text back 'til later that night after I updated my status saying I was going to bed telling me good night, and I told him good night as well.
Should I text him today and say "Hey what's up?" or something like "Are you still sore from yesterday?" I don't wanna text him and not have him text back - it makes me feel like he doesn't like me. While we were around each other he was talking to his friends about how hot that girl is, and stuff. Is that normal for a guy to say to his friend about how hot a girl is, while the girl he likes it pretty much right there?
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To be honest, it sounds like he's just messing with you. However, to be sure about this, I'd do the following:
1)Don't text him until he texts you. If he likes you, eventually he'll text you.
2)Talk to your friends about it. If they know him, talk through them. It's amazing what you can find out when someone else asks the same question you did.
3) When you freaked out when he didn't text you back, it shows that you're into him. Try not to do that, because it makes you seem desperate.
Hope this helps.2