I think the worst part about being ghosted is the lack of closure or explanation more so than just the fact they lost interest.
I mean how can you learn from your mistakes and learn to improve yourself when you don't know what went wrong in the first place?
It just makes you over analyze and second guess yourself if you keep getting ghosted but never find out why. Makes you feel like you're the most flawed/undesirable person.
Most Helpful Girl
I agree! If someone ghosts you then they leave you with endless unanswered questions. The most painful goodbyes are the ones unspoken and unexplained. People often lose self-esteem after being ghosted. They wonder what's wrong with them, and it can cause trust issues in some people. They fear it will happen again when they build a rapport with someone else
I only ghost people if I discover they've been disloyal to me , or if they're trying to manipulate me. People that like deserve nothing but my silence1
Most Helpful Guy
Completely agree. That really is the worst part. They seem to feel like they're above having to tell you. And then when it happens to them they don't like it.3