I mean how can you learn from your mistakes and learn to improve yourself when you don't know what went wrong in the first place?
It just makes you over analyze and second guess yourself if you keep getting ghosted but never find out why. Makes you feel like you're the most flawed/undesirable person.
Most Helpful Girl
I agree! If someone ghosts you then they leave you with endless unanswered questions. The most painful goodbyes are the ones unspoken and unexplained. People often lose self-esteem after being ghosted. They wonder what's wrong with them, and it can cause trust issues in some people. They fear it will happen again when they build a rapport with someone else
I only ghost people if I discover they've been disloyal to me , or if they're trying to manipulate me. People that like deserve nothing but my silence1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You have covered most of the raw emotions in your question - Maybe it is something that comes with age instead of worrying what you did may have done wrong and worry about meeting someone who likes you for who you are - I honestly don't think there is a formula that makes you more desirable to other people or else that self help book would constantly top the best sellers list - You are who you are and it is up to the other person to like the real you or not - You can't make someone like you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE