Most Helpful Girl
hey, i couldnt disagree with your words but its not the entire picture in todays world. i have always worked apart from pregnancy breaks and working part time when the children were young. I've always had financial independence to a degree, i have experienced a relationship with a guy who over two years one of them he didn't work received benefits which he spent on his car and weed, i worked two kids etc i never bitched but tried to encourage and be supportive but yes it played a part in the end amongst much more, if he had lifted a finger at home during this time it would of made a big difference to me but he was a taker and this showed me how some men feel about certain types of women... money is necessary... it comes it goes... if i met a new man now yes he would need to be working not a waster of money not scrooge either but thats enough for me... have you ever thought about if you had children and being totally responsible for everyone? xx1
Most Helpful Guy
I watched countless of documentaries, seen 1000s of couples who go through a relationship and guy had no money or couldnt work and she picks up another job to maintain a living. They often ask themselves why are they in a relationship. Even after 4 years. They can't give no solid answer but rather they just love spending time with that man.
It depends on what she's after and how her past is like thst determines a mans worth to her.0