OK, I was raised by my family to be a southern gentlemen (open doors, be nice, pull out the chair, etc. etc.) but despite my best efforts many of the girls I know from school or gone on dates with have said that I am too nice, or that I am the sweetest guy they know, but do not want to ruin our friendship. It was just the way I was raised, but why do women not want a guy who does all those things?
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WOMEN DO WANT GUYS LIKE THAT!
I don't think that is a bad thing at all!
I would absolutely love a guy who did all of that for me.
Trust me, the women in your town just don't appreciate that there are some complete jerks out there, and to have someone like you is a breath of fresh air.
My advice would be to not change who you are, because you will find plenty of women who appreciate those gestures. Stick with it - there is someone special out there for you!