OK, I got a number. We arrange a date, we meet and then she make me feel as bad as possible.
- "don't touch me. Nothing personal, I don't like anyone touching me" (This is just silly. Could someone explain this?)
- "don't look at me. I don't feel comfortable when You are looking at me like that!" (I laugh and ask, should I look at my shoes then instead, or what?)
Or walking in silly patterns so that I have to move either in front of her or behind - unless I really want to run in other pedestrians or light posts while trying follow her walking pace and direction.
I don't want to feel guilty for offering to accompany her on her way back - I offered that and she agreed after all.
And no I did nothing wrong except may be asking her, should we try to be together with me or should we stay "just friends".
She is very cute sure, but not that good to accept a bad attitude unconditionally.
So the question is - where is a point in getting that "magic" number or arranging that "dream date" if You get anything but crap in return.
I wonder, may be I am just too good and she just don't feel comfortable with me because of her own issues?
Well. Is this so hard to tell, "Sorry, I don't want to hurt You, but You are just not my type"?
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Sounds like you had a fun date, this is what I would have done. When she said don't touch me, I would have said oh so I can't touch you here, and touch her arm, or here and touch her shoulder, and then I would have gone touch touch touch touch, and said oh good your still alive you survived someone touching you.
The don't look at me, you could have said who said I was looking at you? You would of had to be looking at me in order for you to know if I was looking at you, so you stop looking at me then. I would have never said should we be together or just stay friends, because guess what happens you get the old well I think were better off a friends comment.
The point is, you let her tell you what you can and can't do. Don't touch, don't look, and don't walk next to me. And that is one way women determine the type of guy you are, here's a tip, they want a guy who they can't tell what to do, or who won't do what she wants them to do.2