Of course, this is just based on your own personal experiences and isn't applicable to every single member of that gender. But from your personal observation and experience, what's something hypocritical that the opposite gender tends to do, say, expect, or think?
What is the most hypocritical thing about the opposite gender?
What Guys Said 72
cries of double standards, "stop body/fat shaming me" followed immediately by, "I don't date any one under six feet tall". The whole its standards when a woman has a preference its sexist beauty standards when men have prefferences. Also the claim that men get hi-fived when they have sex with a woman which to date I have never witnessed happening, then claiming they get slut shamed BUT they demonize male sexuality at every turn (we have to be taught how not to rape) but they are just exploring their sexuality. They say we can't slut shame them then call men who sleep around players/fuckboys/philanderers etc. No, either your fine with it or your not, pick one. Personally I think women get strange ideas in their head about this, they demand that women get the same leeway as women give men, no just hold men to the same standards don't complain because you want a guy who isn't a virgin but he wants a woman who is, that's your fault not his hold him to the same standard and the problem is solved (same goes for guys, don't complain that she is a slut but be a slut yourself).7
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I don't like that these shows like The Talk and The View talk about the bad shit that men do to women, which should definitely be addressed, but ignore the things women do to men. If a man beats, rapes, kills, or does some messed up shit to a woman, they have no problem jumping on men, as they should. But then when (true story) some woman gets her husband drunk and drugged up and slices his penis off and puts in the garbage disposal, they are laughing at the situation. And they never address that there are some women (I've heard this sort of story happen more than a few times) who will cheat on their husbands, never tell him, get pregnant with another man's child, tells her husband it's his kid, gives birth, his name is on the birth certificate, then the husband gets a weird hunch and says "I don't think that kid looks like me", he gets a DNA testing kit, swabs himself and his kid, sends it to The Kid Might Not Be Yours Labs, and finds out it isn't his. When he finds out it's not his, he doesn't want to pay for the kid, but because the woman lied about the affair and the kid being his, he is the legal father because his name is on the birth certificate, so he has to pay child support or go to jail. I've already heard this story more than once, and one guy was arrested because he didn't want to pay for the kid. But The View and The Talk don't address this. Dr Phil doesn't address this. Oprah doesn't address this. But they have no problem addressing asshole men treating women poorly. By the way, what's the point of constantly talking about the beating and mistreatment of women? Do you think a women beating rapist is going to watch these things and go "oh... I guess I shouldn't be that way anymore"? Obviously we should create awareness, but someone who wants to be a piece of shit isn't going to have a change in heart because some talk show lady is crying saying "don't do that."8
Girls want to be feminists and talk about how guys are being targeted by toxic masculinity then turn right around and call us softboys or babies or whipped or gay when we stop being alpha males for a second. I think toxic masculinity is real but I’m a bit sick of getting insulted for actually challenging that ideology.8
In a relationship, they think their feelings are more valid than ours, simply because they're the girl. They think things are ultimately supposed to go their way, and don't seem to even realize they're doing it. And at the same time they say, "respect my feelings please."11
It's not true of all women but far too many want to be treated equally (fair enough and I support it) but they want special privileges for being women.10
When she thinks your cheating without any definitive evidence then proceeds to do some preemptive cheating, effectively sabotaging the relationship.10
I guess the closest thing women do to hypocrisy is they complain about, "where have all the nice guys gone" but they never give nice guys a chance. That's coming from personal experience. Throughout middle school and up till my third year or so of high school I was a nice guy. Didn't get me anywhere, so I started treating women a little worse. Not badly, but not exactly nice either. For instance, a girl would fish for a compliment and instead of feeding her I'd blow her off or shrug. Guess what the result was. Low and behold I started having more success with women. I literally became more successful with women after I started treating them worse than I had in the past, and then I see all these girls complaining about not being able to find a nice guy. Pretty irritating, I tell you.7
When women complain about there not being enough decent men, but then they will reject the nice guy and go with the asshole.12
They want a someone who is mature honest and straight forward guy who doesn't play games but when it comes to dating they do the complete opposite.9
-"Whats wrong babe?"
Women who are touchy feely yet, find the same behavior from a guy to be abusive. I had a very traumatic sexual assault when I was young, and I loathe strangers touching me, and for some reason strange women think that it's okay to juat grab my arm, touch my shoulders, or hug me... If a guy did that, he'd be in prison, but just because it's a woman...6
Saying you would do one thing or another "if you loved me", when she did none of those things and or nothing to change them. I've had girls literally tell me if I really loved them I would have done whatever, when they never even told me about the issue.
A couple of things. Women seem to want to be doted on, but then they bite your head off for "not respecting their independence as a woman." Women also talk about how they don't want relationships but then also want to have romance with their hook ups7
Women get away with a lot of things men never could, like false rape accusations that get overturned with no consequences...
and they want to be treated as equals until they realize they have to work like a man for it ie. they want equal pay, but only want to be high level industry leaders, (you will rarely if ever see a woman doing construction or any hard labor)
So many women say they are looking for a good guy but then they fall for jerks who treat then like shit because they look nice. There good thing is it seems to be a phase most women eventually outgrow.7
About looks over personality.
Saying we are all the same (f**k boys) when we are not, some of us are real and want relationships, not just sex.
Being stero-typed as things where not based on looks and skin colour.
Virgin shamed if a guy is over the age of 18, like me.3
Based on my experiences women tend to think that they can talk to “friends” of the opposite sex but I can’t because I’m a man I can’t turn them down and that they have been hurt before4
Do you want a list?
1. If a guy doesn't like a girl simply because of her weight.=hes an asshole. If girl doesn't like guy simply because of her weight.=she has standards
2. If a girl expects a guy to open doors for her, pay for dates. Be a breadwinner and provider by paying for housing and utilities.=she knows her worth. If a guys expects a girl to cook and clean=he's a sexist asshole.
3. Girls will make fun of how a guy looks. Yet relay on makeup to look attractive.
4. Girls have this whole. "Women dont have to give men shit" yet feel a man should give them 100% and her wants, otherwise he's taking her for granted.
5. Guy uses women for sex=asshole girls using guys for money, status, fame etc. =shes looking for security in life.
6. Girl is shown naked on tv=sexist guy is shown naked on tv =no big deal.
7. Guy gets hit by girl=what did he do to piss her off? Girl gets hit by girl=in no circumstance is that acceptable.
8. Girl gets injured, tortured or killed on tv or movie= supporting violence against women. Guy get injured, tortured or killed in movie or tv=good old television.
9. Fit girl gain weight and people make jokers=assholes fit guy gains weight and people make fun (van diesel)=just a joker in good fun.
7. Girl says she got raped= believe the victim. Guy says he got raped=hahahahaha
8. Girl gets raped.=who did it we'll make pay. Guy gets raped=hahahahahha
9. Joke about girl getting raped=asshole. Joke bout guy getting raped=hahahahahahaha
10. Girl mutilates guys genitals=he probably had it coming. she's considered brave and gets to be on a talk show. Guy mutilates girls gentiles=horrible person.
11. Male teacher has sex with female student=he took advantage of her. Female teacher has sex with male student=he took advantage of her.
12. Stay at home mom=hardest job in the world. Stay at home dad=lazy freeloading bum.
13. Guy becomes famous and dumps girlfriend for someone else.= asshole. Girl becomes famous and dumps boyfriend for someone else.=she knows her worth3
That women constantly think they're more victims than men yet constantly abuse privileges they want us to not think they have.6
The hole premise that guys are assholes and only date hot girls blah blah blah, when women are genuinely fucking horrific for it, you could literally bend over fucking backwards for a girl, do everything for her, all the love, care, money, anything in the world, and she will still just fuck off for the nearest hot asshole who treats her like shit.0
They shit test you to see if you will relinquish control. If you do, they think you're a pussy and lose respect for you. If you don't, they respect you but no longer want to date you.6
Talking about inner buty while wearing tons of make-up5
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i guess like... they want to be loved for who they are... but then don't reciprocate that. I don't know. generalizing massively here.1
Hypocrisy from men that I've noticed is that they complain that women only go for men who aren't attracted to them or ignore her and string her along. This is especially true for "nice" guys, YET they're doing the same thing! By fawning over that girl as you watch her heartbreak because of bad boys or whatever, you too are also going after someone who isn't interested in you and is stringing you along.
Pot, meet kettle. Why judge women for falling victim when you're doing the same?10
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Not my experience but my observations from this place. Guys who are not virgins wanting only virgin girls.8
The whole I want you to be pure/Ive slept with heaps of women thing, and the I want you to be innocent/ but willing to do anything in bed with me thing9
Jealousy. Men tend to get angry when we act jealous after they pay attention to another woman; often throwing down the "don't you trust me?" card. But when we show the same attention to another man, whether it's platonic/innocent or not, all hell breaks loose.6
Almost everything I've heard a guy complain about in person or online have been things myself or other girls/women I've known have experienced. Yet when you point this out to them they are often like "No! I don't believe it!" and "It's WAY worse for us!" Yeah why don't you try experiencing being another person before you make that judgement call? Oh you can't? Then STFU.2
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Muscles are very ugly and penises grosses me out.6
That a guy can have sex with about 10 women and they're "cool" but if a woman has sex with the same amount she's a "hoe".3
Man: I do all the work for this family, and you do what? Nothing? Do something productive.
Women: Give me a second to set down our child and turn off the oven so I don't burn your dinner. Oh... Whoops! Almost tripped on my cleaning supplies. WHO HAS BEEN SITTING ON THE COUCH ALL WEEK? You don't even have a job!!!2
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It's okay for guys to have more than one thing on the side but when I female text two dudes at the same time she's a whore1
In my experience some guys like to lie about their emotions a lot but get upset when they get the slightest inkling you might be doing the same0
Men who want super models but they don’t look like models themselves11
guys won't do someting unsell you tell them to do so, tey won't even think about doing it0