Would you ever give a second chance to someone who rejected you in the past?

[Anonymous]

Few months ago I asked a guy out and he said no because he was seeing someone already (not a long term girlfriend). I said it's cool and moved on. Fast foreward to today, he came to me to ask me out. He said the girl he was seeing turned out to be a complete bitch and that he regrets rejecting me. He even brought me flowers. I still find him attractive and interesting but I'm not sure if I want to give him a second chance. What would you do?
P. S. I'm still single, not seeing or talking to anyone.

[Names93]

He sounds like he made a choice and regrets it, however I have no idea who he is and this could also be typical of a guy who kept you in his little black book for a booty call once things went south with girl number 1. She may not be an complete bitch, she may have rejected him and that's his way of dealing with it.

If you think you know what he's into, and seems like he genuinely wants a relationship, go for it give him a second chance.

I'm quite a bitter person so I don't like to give second chances.

[Logorithim]

Sounds like he was straightforward with you, and you say you're still single and interested, so I would advise you to go out with him. He did the right thing at the time and obviously thought well of you.

[Whatwhat247]

Once I really adored this guy so I asked him out and he said I was too negative (I was going through a lot at the time). When the bad spell in my life was over I was back to my cheerful self and he tried to ask me out. For some reason I didn't feel the same about him. was as though someone put out the flame. Kinda sad if you ask me.

So I say if you still like him - give him a chance 😊

[BuchitaBuchys]

If I were single yes. He had a good reason to reject you, i mean at least now you know he won't accept any other girl's offer if they ask him out when he's with you.
Plus he brought you flowers? Girl, YES!

[Onlythisone]

No, definitely not if he called another woman a complete bitch. That just means it's what he'd call you as soon as you don't agree on something

[Bananaman177]

The one thing you know about him is that he takes relationships seriously and he doesn't try to hook up with other girls if he is in a relationship.

This is a very good quality, and you should at least give him a chance before you make up your mind.

[SuitAndTie]

He rejected you because he was in a relationship and didn't want to cheat. Nor did he want to make you the other girl. In a world full of cheaters at least this guy is honest and genuine. Yes, I'd give him another chance. Although I wouldn't class this as a second chance.

[TXKen]

He rejected you because he had a girlfriend and it would have been wrong of him to date you behind her back. That seems like a good trait to me. You are now both single so i wouldn't hold his rejection against him in these circumstances

[Couchy]

More pluses than minuses from that scenario, he's honest, believes in not messing you around by been a "player" so he's respectful of you as a person, id say go for it.

[EllieVOL28]

Honestly, I don't know what I would do if I were you.
I would felt like I was the second option...
What is more, I don't think it was nice from him when he broke up to immediately contact you. It shows no respect for the other girl, doesn't it?

[Sucram]

She would have to put a good amount of effort in it to prove me that she really means it. Then, yes, I would take her back.

[MiaowMix777]

I personally don’t care about that prideful ego bs, if I still like a girl and she wants me back I’d still take her.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You could give him a chance but take baby steps if you decide to do so.
People do change so it might be worth giving him a chance. Follow what your heart tells you do so.

[red_knight]

His reason was valid... holding a grudge is petty and large egos are just large shields that protect empty heads...

Besides you probably intelligent and you might actually have a great time getting to know this person and alllot

[Regular1]

If a bitch rejects me and then comes back later in a more willing mindset, I will have no problem using her as a cum dumpster a few times. But that's all she's getting from me.

[swampfawkes]

This is not hs second chance... this is his first chance.

[Cursewords]

Nope. Far too many people on earth to bother with past flames.

[Silver158]

Depends. In your situation I would give them a second chance. but if they just outright rejected me like "you have no chance with me" Like a "You're below me" sort of thing I'd tell them to fuck off.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Given what you said in the description part, yes I would.

[macix670]

Yes why not? maybe they changed their mind about me.

[Sunil44]

Go along.. may be he be the one u remained still single.. some back of the mind thought of rejection

[CJSosreb]

Yes, people change. Sometimes we can't change our feeling about someone you cared so much for.

[LaFemmeFatale]

Never asked a guy out and never been rejected.

[Vmm90]

I would give someone a second chance.

[dizmuhjam]

I wouldn't. Second choice wtf. Have some pride.