If u feel things are going too fast and not to your liking... and with him being Muslim there might come a day when u are totally emotionally involved but he "suddenly" realizes that u aren't a Muslim and he can only get serious about a Muslim woman... And he MAY dump you or worse, ask u to convert. Cz it doesn't really depend on what sort of a person he is but what his family is like. U may want to make sure of these things before u get too involved. And make sure you respect his faith, irrespective of how "modern" he is Cz he might wanna be more disciplined in future and it might seem like a deal breaker for u. So bottom line, if u do end up dating make sure the respect is mutual. Good luck!
i wouldn't go through with it if i were u. there are a lot of good muslim people so thats not the issue, however there will be a big cultural gap especially since u dont practice religion. if u love him and want to take a chance u need yo pay attention to his behavior and look for signs u usually dont see when ur in a new love adventure, or u usually disregard until it is too late. whats his view on multiple wives, women having to wear a veil, pork, sexuality. will he always approve that u r christian or agnostic or so, is he open minded to these topics? will he respect ur privacy, thoughts and beleifs? if u see negative signs or simply signs that show u both are very different when it comes to sensitive topics, leave or ull be forced to live a life that is simply not for u.
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He's not Muslim, God punished alcohol, In Islam alcohol is forbidden and sex before marriage is too! He might be a hypocrite as well. There are some people who call their self Muslims do things that would make people think bad of us. I hate that people would believe the news that we "blow up stuff" and I have a bomb in my hijab, no its not a bomb, its my hair. Yes, we have hair and in fact I see lots of my other muslim friends who wear Hijab and when they take it off our hair is so nice and long. Its not ugly thats not why we cover it...
you don't get to dictate whether or not someone is muslim. If someone says they are muslim and they pray then they are muslim. What this guy does is between him and god. So don't you ever judge someone as not a muslim when they say they are.
@Arabian911 we don't know what he's looking for or whats in his heart, how can we know that from getting only 3 sentences from OP. Imagine if someone just assumed that about you, that you're only looking for sex and experience.
pretty sure OP knows that he is muslim from where she states "He's Muslim but he drinks/isn't a virgin, though he seems very serious about everything else." She clearly knows that drinking and sex is forbidden in islam. She also never mentioned being arab once. So this person could be muslim and not arab.
Actually i wouldn’t even care.. my answers are based on the informations in the question.. i don’t know whether they are true or false, i don’t have supernatural abilities to know the truth or the reality of the situation.
And you really need to take it easy a little bit.. the whole stereotyping of Muslims is getting too much... and i don’t like the victim role. Act as a normal human being why does any muslim feel unique or untitled to a special treatment in any foreign society, it’s just pathetic.
You don’t need to defend the muslim society whenever some one mentions islam.
By the way a lot of Muslims drink alcohol and have sex before marriage.. it’s there but you don’t wanna see it.. people everywhere claims to be a god fearing human being but in fact they are in an active denial.. am not just talking about Muslims.. it’s in every one of us.. muslim, christian or even an Atheist.. accept these facts and believe me you will enjoy your life within the reasonable limits
@Arabian911 i'm aware that there are some Muslims that drink alcohol and have sex before marriage. That doesn't mean they aren't Muslim, and you can't assume that they are only looking for sex and experience. I'm not defending anybody, but i do think you're being presumptuous and judgmental.
Dear i didn’t say some.. i said a lot I’ve been there and saw it in everyday activities... guys mostly speak about sex and alcohol.. Muslims are not special and we need as arabs to accept this fact
I am an ex muslim and dated a few muslim guys! All I can say is that take your time to get to know him and see if you both can connect over things on any level at all or not It may seem like he's head over hills in love with you but some of them actually have things hidden frm you so that's why they rush into things to lock you down! Just 3 weeks ago I had a guy clinging to me and he was a muslim he was just too nice to me, showering me with gifts and chocolate on first tome seeing me and later it turned out he had serious issues with his stay permit in the Uk, didn't have a proper job, was dealing drugs as a living and then to top it off he made up some bullshit story about not having a proper passport or any kind of legal paper work just to give him the basic rights in the UK as an individual, My trick was to question him about it in different ways and he used to get pissed off and finally he blurted everything out lol! BE CAREFULHe may as well be doing that cuz he wants to get laid!
watch the movie not without my daughter. it's about a woman who is in very happy with a Muslim man in America but when they go back to the middle east to visit his family he falls into abusive and controlling behavior. I'm not saying don't be with him but be careful about which parts of his life you step into. You can get away from abuse here but you can't if you're over there. Definitely, try to check it out.
Avoid. He will be cute in the beginning but then he will try to control you and if you get baby's (sons in special) he will not accept other things that they go to Muslim school 🚸 they have to be religious etc. Dangerous world. Avoid. 😊
Many people would maybe say that I'm pregudist but I have talked to Muslims "off camera" (when nobody is listening) and they tell you the fanatic truth about things. Would be to long to explain in detail.
See I'm Muslim and i could say what wrote is true but not 100% true. But yeah she needs to be careful about him not all Arab will accept a new culture.
@thatguyfromtoronto you don't need to be mad she is right and if you are an arab you know our people , well there are that bad and the good guys she needs to know that guy she talks about a good guy or not.
I've met two muslim guys while on vacation. They drank and smoked cigarettes. One of them showed me a picture of his mum in hijab. They are family oriented and in the end, marry their own kind. Also, they only marry virgins. At least 99 percent of them.
So if you're sleeping with them, forget it. They will be nice and romantic but they don't love women who don't wait until marriage. They emphasized that to me. One of them told me he was in relationship but broke up and lived with that girl. HE didn't take her seriously.
I told one of the guys that I was waiting for marriage and the whole time they were very respectful to me and kept their boundaries. So i can assure you, they hunt for easy prey but in the end they marry of their own race, the good girl from back home who's never known a man. I hope this helps
According to the Muslim faith he's already disrespected himself by being with a white woman. Furthermore I hope you like having zero freedom and be prepared for abuse. Little spoken about it but its done often. Especially in Sharia households its even more prevalent. But hey I'm just a guy online who grew up around and witnessed the craziness that can happen in a Muslim home. Seen a woman get slapped for talking too long. So in summation, think very hard about your decision but ultimately do what makes you feel best.
Be prepared to slowly lose your personal rights as the relationship evolves:
•begin wearing a hijab and covering up •not having contact with other men, including family and friends •receiving permission from him before doing anything •be prepared to convert to Islam if you want to end up with him (even though he may deny this) •he's likely to engage in new relationships with women once yours has been cemented. •if you've never been hit by a man before, that may change in the near future.
1. Might just be in it do sex you up. Lots of muslim guys go for non muslim girls to bang but marry muslim girls at the end. And it shows since you're moving too fast lol Ya right he's really in it. Don't buy it
2. His religion over you. Always 3. can't eat at normal places. Always muslim inspired places cause it has to be halal meat lol 4. He might as you to convert 5. If he follows it. Then he must feel he is worth more than you 6. His family might reject you
These men can be highly manipulative of western women. It's happened quite often where the woman ends up in quasi slavery under her man, not being allowed to leave the house without him and not being allowed to choose her own clothing. They can be heartless, emotionally manipulative bastards and it wouldn't be a seldom case of this happening. If I were you, the fact it's moving so fast should set off alarm bells for you.
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Muslims are very conservative, almost 95 percent. Maybe they would pretend to be not, but in the inside they are. I am a Muslim and I hate my religion. Nobody practises the original religion. Everything is so distorted. I rarely can get peace. They literally treat women as servant and slaves. I have seen my mom working like a pig and nobody gives a shit about that. Can't speak about her to dad many times cause he is hella conservative.
And if he asks you to convert to ISLAM, DONT DO IT. THEY WILL TRY TO MANIPULATE INTO BELIEVING SHIT. TRUST ME. IT HAPPENED TO MY MOM. MY MOM WAS A CHRISTIAN TOO.
Why should you convert if you had to, for someone and not practise your religion?
I hate religion to be honest, why should something divide people like that. We are born to live freely and peaceful. We are all the kids of the supreme. We are unique.
wtf man XD I dont know where you live, but I live in germany and have a christian mom and a muslim dad and she didn't convert yet and Im 23. I dont think after 23 years that she will be converting at the age of 55. He had ramadan and Christmas at our home and everything was fine.
@dizmuhjam He tried very hard but forget to "put some" Muslim attitude in his post and no one will ever force a Christan wife to convert cuz its allowed in Islam and there are numerous examples of it.
@Nobodycares Well, shut up and after Crusade the Christianity is not spreading as a religion but Islam do spread to near 2 billion followers. Dude you forget about Spanish Inquistion, Portuguese Inquistion and their Inquistion in their American colonies is responsible for conversions in Europe and USA. I forget to mention the Red Indians force conversions too. Please learn some History your religion is always like this and it only spreads by Force conversions like that of Vikings great Heathen army. British forced conversion in India. Can you name a single forced event like this with evidence NO nobody is forcing anyone today but Still Islam spreads and Christians accept it.
I understand the inquisitions were terrible. It showed a major problem with catholicism, and any organized religion really. But as an atheist living in the 21st century, I feel that we should move above religion.
Christianity hasn't done much of anything extremely oppressive in the past 100 years (other religions, like fascism and communism took over on that end).
@Nobodycares I used to think like that but then I learned a life lesson, "Never take anyone religion away from him cuz he will make you his religion" and history has proved it. I mean like new Sikhs religion in 15th century and free missionary.
@AlphaGhost I think it'd be better if people learn to examine their childhoods and behave like individuals. Then they'll be less prone to manipulation.
a lot of Muslims asnwers here hahaha. I'm one of them. For me see from what country he came from? We are Arab we can say and do a lot of flowery things if you like make fall inlove and things I've seen that a lot. You really need to know him so well before doing anything don't hurt youself if you are not sure but if you are sure about him go for it.
I'm a Muslim. If he is not a practicing muslim, his family might be and would want you to convert to Islam. Look Muslims are not bad people. Like the lady said below that if some people of the religion do bad that doesn't mean that everyone of that religion is bad. It depends on the individual. I know men who have married American women. Those women converted to Islam and the marriage is successful. They are more than happy. Some people said over here that the Muslims have multiple wives. In our religion we can at maximum keep 4 wives. But you know that nobody follows religion in a literal sense or in the exact way as Lao done. People who I told you about have only one wife. So depends individual.
If you get in a serious relationship with him then you better hope he stays lukewarm about his religion because if he doesn't and becomes serious about his religion he might start to be controlling and demanding you to dress like a ninja in wheather of 90°
@Ephemera1 yea but nuns are a special case because they are very few of them and nothing in enforced upon a women wanting to be a nun... you generally don't see nuns just walking around the streets casually... they live and function in very specific areas...
I don't care for most religions but christianity doesn't enforce women to be nuns... But many muslim families enforce coverage... not all but many
Theoretically muslim men can marry non-muslims. Practically he will either see you as a good lay or want you to convert. Many muslim men in the west bump&dump white girls behind closed doors. And if they are really willing to be serious, they will demand converting.
Your guy might or might not be that way. So it is best to actually bring this topic up before you invest yourself too much. Ask him what he wants, what he is planning and what he expects.
Well I’m an Atheist and used to be a muslim 12 years ago.. the problem is not with him being a muslim it’s about his culture I’m from Jordan and Arab guys there look for an easy sex.. the won’t even dare to have sex with an Arab christian girl because her father would mostly shoot his ass... so they look for western girls and women... too much movies and porn gave them a lot of ideas..
And believe me in the end he won’t marry you.. so dumb the guy and have an easier life
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Expect his family to be rude with you, try to be respectful with them like don’t show too much skin or drink or smoke, expect him to ask you to convert someday because it has a huge impact on your future family, expect him to get jealous around your male friends, he might become moody during ramadan because he will be fasting the whole day so don’t go eating in frint of him
This sounds very idiotic and so immature! In the first place, I don't believe he's a Muslem for what has unbelief and someone who believes in something have in common? If he believes in what he professes, there is no reason why he'd be dating someone who doesn't believe like him. It's like saying me, who is a Christian would be dating someone who isn't a Christian. Who are we kidding? What happens when you have kids? Please, save yourself from headaches and get with someone who's on the same path as you are. I think some of these posts are simple "thought provokerswas and aren't real. This is beyond me! Can't believe that someone would even contemplate something like this. No wonder, we have so much divorce!
Find out what his parents think of the relationship and what his views on your religion and what religion potential children will be before you become serious with him. That will help determine whether or not you should continue pursuing the relationship.
Yeah, there's definitely been stories in the media about muslim men being very assertive over what happens to their children, to the point that they'd even murder them. It was a really weird story that I read.
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If u feel things are going too fast and not to your liking... and with him being Muslim there might come a day when u are totally emotionally involved but he "suddenly" realizes that u aren't a Muslim and he can only get serious about a Muslim woman... And he MAY dump you or worse, ask u to convert.
Cz it doesn't really depend on what sort of a person he is but what his family is like.
U may want to make sure of these things before u get too involved.
And make sure you respect his faith, irrespective of how "modern" he is Cz he might wanna be more disciplined in future and it might seem like a deal breaker for u.
So bottom line, if u do end up dating make sure the respect is mutual.
Good luck!
i wouldn't go through with it if i were u. there are a lot of good muslim people so thats not the issue, however there will be a big cultural gap especially since u dont practice religion. if u love him and want to take a chance u need yo pay attention to his behavior and look for signs u usually dont see when ur in a new love adventure, or u usually disregard until it is too late. whats his view on multiple wives, women having to wear a veil, pork, sexuality. will he always approve that u r christian or agnostic or so, is he open minded to these topics? will he respect ur privacy, thoughts and beleifs? if u see negative signs or simply signs that show u both are very different when it comes to sensitive topics, leave or ull be forced to live a life that is simply not for u.
He's not Muslim, God punished alcohol, In Islam alcohol is forbidden and sex before marriage is too! He might be a hypocrite as well. There are some people who call their self Muslims do things that would make people think bad of us. I hate that people would believe the news that we "blow up stuff" and I have a bomb in my hijab, no its not a bomb, its my hair. Yes, we have hair and in fact I see lots of my other muslim friends who wear Hijab and when they take it off our hair is so nice and long. Its not ugly thats not why we cover it...
you don't get to dictate whether or not someone is muslim. If someone says they are muslim and they pray then they are muslim. What this guy does is between him and god. So don't you ever judge someone as not a muslim when they say they are.
That’s an A class conspiracy theory... you know it and i know it, the guy is just looking for sex and a girlfriend experience
Pink1996 he might not be muslim, but Arab. She might've mistaken Islam and Arabic
@Arabian911 we don't know what he's looking for or whats in his heart, how can we know that from getting only 3 sentences from OP. Imagine if someone just assumed that about you, that you're only looking for sex and experience.
pretty sure OP knows that he is muslim from where she states "He's Muslim but he drinks/isn't a virgin, though he seems very serious about everything else." She clearly knows that drinking and sex is forbidden in islam. She also never mentioned being arab once. So this person could be muslim and not arab.
Actually i wouldn’t even care.. my answers are based on the informations in the question.. i don’t know whether they are true or false, i don’t have supernatural abilities to know the truth or the reality of the situation.
And you really need to take it easy a little bit.. the whole stereotyping of Muslims is getting too much... and i don’t like the victim role. Act as a normal human being why does any muslim feel unique or untitled to a special treatment in any foreign society, it’s just pathetic.
You don’t need to defend the muslim society whenever some one mentions islam.
By the way a lot of Muslims drink alcohol and have sex before marriage.. it’s there but you don’t wanna see it.. people everywhere claims to be a god fearing human being but in fact they are in an active denial.. am not just talking about Muslims.. it’s in every one of us.. muslim, christian or even an Atheist.. accept these facts and believe me you will enjoy your life within the reasonable limits
@Arabian911 i'm aware that there are some Muslims that drink alcohol and have sex before marriage. That doesn't mean they aren't Muslim, and you can't assume that they are only looking for sex and experience. I'm not defending anybody, but i do think you're being presumptuous and judgmental.
Dear i didn’t say some.. i said a lot I’ve been there and saw it in everyday activities... guys mostly speak about sex and alcohol.. Muslims are not special and we need as arabs to accept this fact
I am an ex muslim and dated a few muslim guys! All I can say is that take your time to get to know him and see if you both can connect over things on any level at all or not It may seem like he's head over hills in love with you but some of them actually have things hidden frm you so that's why they rush into things to lock you down! Just 3 weeks ago I had a guy clinging to me and he was a muslim he was just too nice to me, showering me with gifts and chocolate on first tome seeing me and later it turned out he had serious issues with his stay permit in the Uk, didn't have a proper job, was dealing drugs as a living and then to top it off he made up some bullshit story about not having a proper passport or any kind of legal paper work just to give him the basic rights in the UK as an individual, My trick was to question him about it in different ways and he used to get pissed off and finally he blurted everything out lol! BE CAREFULHe may as well be doing that cuz he wants to get laid!
watch the movie not without my daughter. it's about a woman who is in very happy with a Muslim man in America but when they go back to the middle east to visit his family he falls into abusive and controlling behavior. I'm not saying don't be with him but be careful about which parts of his life you step into. You can get away from abuse here but you can't if you're over there. Definitely, try to check it out.
Avoid. He will be cute in the beginning but then he will try to control you and if you get baby's (sons in special) he will not accept other things that they go to Muslim school 🚸 they have to be religious etc. Dangerous world. Avoid. 😊
Many people would maybe say that I'm pregudist but I have talked to Muslims "off camera" (when nobody is listening) and they tell you the fanatic truth about things. Would be to long to explain in detail.
Oh shut the fuck up you lying sack of crap.
I didn't said those things they did
See I'm Muslim and i could say what wrote is true but not 100% true. But yeah she needs to be careful about him not all Arab will accept a new culture.
Thank you. 😊 I'm. Not here to lie... Would never say things that aren't true does not make sense write 📝 in a forum if you lie
@thatguyfromtoronto you don't need to be mad she is right and if you are an arab you know our people , well there are that bad and the good guys she needs to know that guy she talks about a good guy or not.
I've met two muslim guys while on vacation. They drank and smoked cigarettes. One of them showed me a picture of his mum in hijab. They are family oriented and in the end, marry their own kind. Also, they only marry virgins. At least 99 percent of them.
So if you're sleeping with them, forget it. They will be nice and romantic but they don't love women who don't wait until marriage. They emphasized that to me. One of them told me he was in relationship but broke up and lived with that girl. HE didn't take her seriously.
I told one of the guys that I was waiting for marriage and the whole time they were very respectful to me and kept their boundaries. So i can assure you, they hunt for easy prey but in the end they marry of their own race, the good girl from back home who's never known a man. I hope this helps
According to the Muslim faith he's already disrespected himself by being with a white woman. Furthermore I hope you like having zero freedom and be prepared for abuse. Little spoken about it but its done often. Especially in Sharia households its even more prevalent. But hey I'm just a guy online who grew up around and witnessed the craziness that can happen in a Muslim home. Seen a woman get slapped for talking too long. So in summation, think very hard about your decision but ultimately do what makes you feel best.
I know it's wrong but I laughed when I read 'slapped for talking too long' wasn't sure if serious
She probably brought it on with what she was wearing
Dead serious about that FMan lol
Be prepared to slowly lose your personal rights as the relationship evolves:
•begin wearing a hijab and covering up
•not having contact with other men, including family and friends
•receiving permission from him before doing anything
•be prepared to convert to Islam if you want to end up with him (even though he may deny this)
•he's likely to engage in new relationships with women once yours has been cemented.
•if you've never been hit by a man before, that may change in the near future.
I have many male friends who left Islam (despite being born into it) and would agree with my statements above.
Loved it. 😂😂
1. Might just be in it do sex you up. Lots of muslim guys go for non muslim girls to bang but marry muslim girls at the end. And it shows since you're moving too fast lol
Ya right he's really in it. Don't buy it
2. His religion over you. Always
3. can't eat at normal places. Always muslim inspired places cause it has to be halal meat lol
4. He might as you to convert
5. If he follows it. Then he must feel he is worth more than you
6. His family might reject you
Good luck lol
He's right on this one im afraid
These men can be highly manipulative of western women. It's happened quite often where the woman ends up in quasi slavery under her man, not being allowed to leave the house without him and not being allowed to choose her own clothing. They can be heartless, emotionally manipulative bastards and it wouldn't be a seldom case of this happening. If I were you, the fact it's moving so fast should set off alarm bells for you.
Muslims are very conservative, almost 95 percent. Maybe they would pretend to be not, but in the inside they are. I am a Muslim and I hate my religion. Nobody practises the original religion. Everything is so distorted. I rarely can get peace. They literally treat women as servant and slaves. I have seen my mom working like a pig and nobody gives a shit about that. Can't speak about her to dad many times cause he is hella conservative.
And if he asks you to convert to ISLAM, DONT DO IT. THEY WILL TRY TO MANIPULATE INTO BELIEVING SHIT. TRUST ME. IT HAPPENED TO MY MOM. MY MOM WAS A CHRISTIAN TOO.
Why should you convert if you had to, for someone and not practise your religion?
I hate religion to be honest, why should something divide people like that. We are born to live freely and peaceful. We are all the kids of the supreme. We are unique.
wtf man XD I dont know where you live, but I live in germany and have a christian mom and a muslim dad and she didn't convert yet and Im 23. I dont think after 23 years that she will be converting at the age of 55. He had ramadan and Christmas at our home and everything was fine.
*we had
damn german auto correct.
Lol, nice try to behave like someone else idiot man..
@AlphaGhost wtf... simply wtf..
@dizmuhjam He tried very hard but forget to "put some" Muslim attitude in his post and no one will ever force a Christan wife to convert cuz its allowed in Islam and there are numerous examples of it.
@AlphaGhost Yeah. My father always says "What you do and believe is between you and god. Nobody else can judge you, nobody else can force you."
@dizmuhjam I know and "truth to be told" force conversions are kind of Christan thing and their History is full of examples about it.
@AlphaGhost Lmao, christians don't do forced conversions any more. Is it still the 12th century? Is a crusader gonna come knocking on your door, like,
"Hello? Anybody there? Deus vuuuuult! Hello? Deus vult! All I want is a little deus vult, okay?"
@Nobodycares Well, shut up and after Crusade the Christianity is not spreading as a religion but Islam do spread to near 2 billion followers. Dude you forget about Spanish Inquistion, Portuguese Inquistion and their Inquistion in their American colonies is responsible for conversions in Europe and USA. I forget to mention the Red Indians force conversions too.
Please learn some History your religion is always like this and it only spreads by Force conversions like that of Vikings great Heathen army. British forced conversion in India. Can you name a single forced event like this with evidence NO
nobody is forcing anyone today but Still Islam spreads and Christians accept it.
@AlphaGhost Well, not in the 21st century.
Also, I'm not a christian.
I understand the inquisitions were terrible. It showed a major problem with catholicism, and any organized religion really. But as an atheist living in the 21st century, I feel that we should move above religion.
Christianity hasn't done much of anything extremely oppressive in the past 100 years (other religions, like fascism and communism took over on that end).
@Nobodycares I used to think like that but then I learned a life lesson,
"Never take anyone religion away from him cuz he will make you his religion" and history has proved it. I mean like new Sikhs religion in 15th century and free missionary.
@AlphaGhost I think it'd be better if people learn to examine their childhoods and behave like individuals. Then they'll be less prone to manipulation.
a lot of Muslims asnwers here hahaha. I'm one of them. For me see from what country he came from? We are Arab we can say and do a lot of flowery things if you like make fall inlove and things I've seen that a lot. You really need to know him so well before doing anything don't hurt youself if you are not sure but if you are sure about him go for it.
I'm a Muslim. If he is not a practicing muslim, his family might be and would want you to convert to Islam.
Look Muslims are not bad people. Like the lady said below that if some people of the religion do bad that doesn't mean that everyone of that religion is bad. It depends on the individual.
I know men who have married American women. Those women converted to Islam and the marriage is successful. They are more than happy. Some people said over here that the Muslims have multiple wives. In our religion we can at maximum keep 4 wives. But you know that nobody follows religion in a literal sense or in the exact way as Lao done. People who I told you about have only one wife. So depends individual.
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If you get in a serious relationship with him then you better hope he stays lukewarm about his religion because if he doesn't and becomes serious about his religion he might start to be controlling and demanding you to dress like a ninja in wheather of 90°
“Dress like a ninja” 😂😂
Do nuns wear bikinis?
@Ephemera1 yea but nuns are a special case because they are very few of them and nothing in enforced upon a women wanting to be a nun... you generally don't see nuns just walking around the streets casually... they live and function in very specific areas...
I don't care for most religions but christianity doesn't enforce women to be nuns...
But many muslim families enforce coverage... not all but many
just some minor differences though
Theoretically muslim men can marry non-muslims. Practically he will either see you as a good lay or want you to convert. Many muslim men in the west bump&dump white girls behind closed doors. And if they are really willing to be serious, they will demand converting.
Your guy might or might not be that way. So it is best to actually bring this topic up before you invest yourself too much. Ask him what he wants, what he is planning and what he expects.
I think this is a great response.
This is the best response I've seen too. Well said
Well I’m an Atheist and used to be a muslim 12 years ago.. the problem is not with him being a muslim it’s about his culture I’m from Jordan and Arab guys there look for an easy sex.. the won’t even dare to have sex with an Arab christian girl because her father would mostly shoot his ass... so they look for western girls and women... too much movies and porn gave them a lot of ideas..
And believe me in the end he won’t marry you.. so dumb the guy and have an easier life
Expect his family to be rude with you, try to be respectful with them like don’t show too much skin or drink or smoke, expect him to ask you to convert someday because it has a huge impact on your future family, expect him to get jealous around your male friends, he might become moody during ramadan because he will be fasting the whole day so don’t go eating in frint of him
This sounds very idiotic and so immature! In the first place, I don't believe he's a Muslem for what has unbelief and someone who believes in something have in common? If he believes in what he professes, there is no reason why he'd be dating someone who doesn't believe like him. It's like saying me, who is a Christian would be dating someone who isn't a Christian. Who are we kidding? What happens when you have kids? Please, save yourself from headaches and get with someone who's on the same path as you are. I think some of these posts are simple "thought provokerswas and aren't real. This is beyond me! Can't believe that someone would even contemplate something like this. No wonder, we have so much divorce!
Find out what his parents think of the relationship and what his views on your religion and what religion potential children will be before you become serious with him. That will help determine whether or not you should continue pursuing the relationship.
Yeah, there's definitely been stories in the media about muslim men being very assertive over what happens to their children, to the point that they'd even murder them. It was a really weird story that I read.
yle.fi/.../9928469 - This is a crazy story