Why can't I find someone to wait until I am ready
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Your insane your asking about guys Cumming in your mouth and now your asking people to wait wtf1
Why can't I find someone to wait until I am ready
I think it's like an insurance policy of sorts I don't think of sex as the defining for a relationship but a lot of people tend to. Before condoms sex was a means to having kids that's it that's how naturally it Should be, but we get condoms and it becomes something you do every week, and people started developing sexual acts and so forth because before they couldn't because there was a risk of making the family bigger.
I'll tell you why: Literally the only benefit waiting until marriage has for a guy is being guaranteed a virgin. If you've already had sex, what could he possibly have to gain by waiting with you?
Cause you have to find guys that see you as a great catch. The market doesn't lie
If that guy isn't up to your standards then it's hard cause that's what the market is giving you
We always tend to have much higher standards than we can actually get out there
If you already lost it why not doing it again when you're pretty sure you're with the right guy... anyway still if anyone didn't want to be in a relationship because of your decision then at least you're sure that they were only looking for sex not for a serious relationship
if u feel its the right choice for u... stick with it
That's up to you. I wouldn't date a virgin buts that my preference. Could I wait sure but if we're not compatible it's bad.
I'm sure you will, i will wait too because pissing god off is not an option
Because 99% of the females who claim that they feel this way to guys, and order them to wait, are abject hypocrites and bare-faced liars with double standards, who've already "experimented" and "explored themselves" by having sex with multiple guys in the past. YOU lot NEVER wait for the right guy to come along- you'll only ever make the right guy wait. For the bad guys though, the fuckboys and the players, you'll always spread your legs for them without hesitation no matter what you claim your values are. So, why the hell should any of us accept being forced to go through that shitty excuse of a shit-test and wait for YOU, when none of you will ever do the same for us? If the right man isn't worth the wait to any of you, then why should any of us bother waiting for you- what makes YOU worth that wait, hmm?
Because most people don’t like celibacy. They may respect preserving virginity enough to defer sex. Any other reason not only seems “not good enough” but suggests a high willingness by you to turn sex off - which is a horrible trait in a spouse.
Because a relationship, involves sex, right?
Otherwise you're "just friends", righttttt?
Sex is an important part of most relationships. Also making sure that you're sexually compatible is important. Imagine if you get married and absolutely hate having sex together. That would be miserable for everyone involved. There are people who are willing, but waiting until marriage has become an outdated practice.
That way of thinking is wrong on so many levels. While I understand the point you’re making, you’re outright objectifying women, you’re saying that a man has the right to sex the way he has to a present bought for him? At what point does sex with a woman become something he owns just because he’s dating her? At what point does she become his “present” and a thing he can claim ownership over?
Don't feel bad, I'm 30 and still a virgin and would ideally like to wait until marriage as well (though I would consider negotiating with a guy I was really into, into possibly doing it before... this would be a very rare occurance, and honestly I can think of only two guys I've ever liked that I would have considered negotiating with). Further more, whether I'd be open to negotiation or not with a particular guy is determined before dating based on how much I want you (not sexually, but from a long term relationship, eventual marriage perspective)... so there's no dating me and buttering me up to get me to change my mind. As a side, I've never dated either... mainly because the guys I like don't like me and the ones that like me, I don't like and I'm not willing to settle for someone I don't want.
Anyway, I can't find any guy that's willing to wait either. Including guys that claim to be church guys. Almost everyone is fake anymore and they want everything for free.
More and more people these days have learned the value and importance of sexual compatibility in a relationship. You can't know whether or not you are compatible with someone in bed until you sleep with them. And why would you want to enter into a lifelong commitment with someone when you had absolutely no idea whether or not the two of you had any chance at a great sex life? Sex is a vital part of marriage. Most guys are smart enough to have that part figured out. Waiting until adulthood is smart. Waiting until after marriage only works for a small percentage of couples.
Hmm well I don't care much about sex maybe I'll wait but I enjoy being by myself. Relationships are really complicated sometimes so I wou
Because they are hungry for it
Stick it out. I’m waiting till marriage too. You can’t tell me that out of the billions of people in the world there’s not 1 single man who will wait for you
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