Example: If she says on the first date that she wants to get to know you better before you guys kiss for the first time. What do you guys think of girls acting like this?
- I think it's great, we don't need to rush thingsVote A
- I think it's annoying, I would not have patienceVote B
- I'm a girl and I want to see resultsVote C
Most Helpful Guy
you're valued by the things you give the most value for, so by taking things slow, you give intimacy the highest value, so you're making it as the main prize which a man will get if passed your "tests" and was patient !
the real question is what better interest will motivate him later to give an effort for !
give value for more important things, make being with you be his interest, at least you'll know from the beginning if he's there just for sex and won't lose time with him !1
Most Helpful Girl
I suggest it's best to talk about this and be friends first before you decide to get into romance or dating. Because if you start this now, you might find out things that will make you regret trying dating that person. If a guy doesn't agree, move on. You date how you want and need to be treated. Kissing is far too intimate and you're exchanging sex hormones. Not a smart idea, that's how so many people get too sexual early and miss serious red flags that will eventually lead to a break up sometime in the future if not right now.1