Most Helpful Guy
No time limit. I have been dating this girl for 10 months, and we are sort of secretive about our relationship, which is fine. In the past, she mentioned to me that people used to always get into her relationship and try to sabotage it or give her bad advice, so she stopped telling people she was in a relationship when she got into one.
-Only her close friends (a few of them) know that she is in relationship with me, but I have not met her friends yet. Same with my closest friends, but they live out of state.
-I have yet to introduce her to my dad, mainly because he is very judgmental. He acts like he is all high and mighty and acts like we are some "royal family". He always talks about how I should marry a white girl, someone who is in shape, someone who has a good job already, someone who is sexy, and all this other stuff. My girlfriend is black (like me), is working on getting back into shape, is in college getting her masters and works part time, doesn't have a car right now (but she is working on it) and has a good heart.
-I haven't introduced her to my mom because she would try to convert my girlfriend. My mom is really heavy into this black religion and every time she sees a black person, she tries to convert them, gives them religious CDs and talks all this religious crap.
As a result... I have no reason to introduce her to my parents yet. I am no ashamed of her, I just don't want my parents' opinions on my relationship (YET).1
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Most Helpful Girl
I introduced my most recent ex within about 2 because I had a party and him and another one of my friends were staying at my house afterwards so I kinda had too. The one before that my mam had already met him before I did because she worked at our school and he was in a different year group, so I met him about 3 years after my mam did, luckily she liked him.1