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First off guys like him is a guy like me. We dont want to be pressured nor assume that we want to be with you more so if it's long distance. Long distance never works. If you try to change us or pressure us to do something we do not want we loose interest really quick. For the shy guys the are lazy they rather stay home and play video games.
My advice to you is try something different or a break. You don't need a guy to be happy.