Is there a chance he likes me?

I've had a crush on a guy I used to work with for 2 years. We were very and He was my go to guy. I could always talk to him about anything. I would vent and vent to him. A year after he left we started a streak on Snapchat. We've had an almost 250 day streak, and we recently started talking again. I've always liked him and continue to do so, but he has always treated me as a friend and I don't want to show that I have feelings for him, as a defense I've friend zoned him a lot and even told him I like a new manager at the work place.
Well recently I invited him over to Thanksgiving and he politely turned it down bc he was going to be with his family (big red flag right? )
But the next day we began talking about how work has been since he left and he told me that if I'm "ever in need to talk or want to vent away then to hit him up anytime." And that he was "serious about it" He also told me to continue "smiling the way I do 😊😊"
My question is do y'all see some kind of low key interest? or he's just being a nice friend and missing the old times I would vent to him? Is there a possibility he may actually like me?


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  • If a guy can handle a girl that vents a lot I think chances are he may like you. He has patience to sit and listen then that is a good thing. He also still remembers thing's about you like your smile etc. He probably cherishes you and his friendship. Even if you and him dated it would change things.

    • The venting is not in person though, it's through Snapchat. We haven't seen each other in almost 2 years we've just maintained semi-contact through a streak

    • Ok my bad. I thought you was seeing him in person as well. That is good you both make time to message each other.

  • Hey, jst go and tell him , that u like him.
    Trust me , I feel, he likes u too.

    • ***I should also mention that when we worked together, he was in an 8 yr relationship with a girl. We even planned how he would propose. I always felt a bit distant and hurt after they broke up which is why I've friend-zoned him bc I think he still loves her, I saw how he was towards her and he genuinely loved her, and she cheated on him.

    • Times change, people change. U need to move on. Don't bother much about d past. If u genuinely hv feelings fr him, express it. Don't procrastinate.

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