Should I tell the guy I'm dating that I live with a male roommate?

We've been seeing each other for 2 weeks and we've had sex in his apartment.
I'm not sure how he will handle that I live with a male roommate.
I live with 1 girl and 1 guy. We all have separate bedrooms but we share a common living space and kitchen.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I would not see it as a big deal. You have separate bedrooms and there is another gal living there. Sound plenty vanilla to me. Hopefully when you tell him he will see it the same way. Since it is vanilla, I would not feel something sly was withheld from me if you do not tell him right away.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • "I live with 1 girl and 1 guy."

    That alone already makes the living situation 100x times better. There is no need to make this a big deal because it really isn't. No need to even bring it up until you two are talking about living situations.

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What Guys Said 17

  • Yes tell him. Honesty and you're being upfront. If he finds out on his own, then it looks like you're hiding something and he'll be more upset by that. If you tell him just like you did here, it's no big deal at all. Unless he's the SUPPER jealous and insecure type, but you wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway if he is. This is nothing.

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  • Have you had sex with your roommate? I have a neighbor downstairs who bangs a different dude every week and brings in an extra one every now and then to double penetrate her and she’s so nasty to me, told me to kill myself because I told her I want her. She’s getting her brains banged out as I write this. I’m trying to become a pornstar to get desensitized to this horrible feeling.

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  • Just tell him a story of sonething your roommates did making sure that yoy specify that one of them is a guy. See how he reacts to that and if he seems like he doesn't care than just leave it alone and continue like you were.

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  • As long as you would have an easy transition back to your previous situation you do you. The most important part about being young is remembering you're young and have time to nake mistakes so fuck it. Just don't have kids that doesn't go away

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  • Sooner is better. Just tell him that you haven't good chance to tell him before.

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  • Why hide it of you haven't slept with your roommate?

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  • Hey u guys had sex then y would he think so bad tell him at the right moment

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  • You should tell him...100%... be yourself... be original..

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  • I'd say yes with a lot of reassurance that there's hanky pank.

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  • If you tell him then it looks suspicious. It should come naturally like duh whatever

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What Girls Said 4

  • Meh. You just have two roomies. Who cares about genders?

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  • I don't think it's totally necessary, maybe a heads up before going to your place. If you don't make it a big deal, it won't be.

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  • You should tell him.

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  • Well, I'm assuming he will find out eventually, unless you never go back to your place.

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