What does it mean when a guy is not interested in dating for a while?

I've mainly seen this in guys from church circles but some guys are really attractive and have lots of women hoping to date them but they just go for years without any interest in a woman. And probably after about 5-8 years of not dating anyone at all, they finally pick a girl they want and settle down with them. They normally do this in their mid to late 30's. Is it possible for men to go for that long without acting on any sexual desire for women? These guys don't seem gay, they just seem to have had something switch off in them. What is this a red flag of?


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What Guys Said 2

  • They have discovered something more interesting than sex.
    Love is something which is beyond sexual gratification.

    • like what?

    • Like any passion to achieve or be something , like Warren Buffett, Steve Jobs, or David Bekheam, Biber, etc..

  • May be heart broken


What Girls Said 1

  • Maybe he had a lot going on and wasn't ready to date or he could have been waiting for the right woman to come alone


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