I only ask because I'm interested in people's own words on this topic rather than articles in magazines etc.
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I think those articles are just trying to make girls think they have to give out to connect with a guy. That isn't necessarily the case.
What *is* the case is that if a guy opens up to a girl before sex, she'll friendzone him almost every time, so even if guys are 'able,' many won't do it. If girls would stop friendzoning any guy who doesn't treat them like a disposable sex toy, there are lots of guys who would be willing to open up before sex
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