If I stop acting insecure and jealous will my relationship be better?
What Guys Said 20
Yes. Insecurity and jealousy is okay but to a certain extent. Beyond the point where it's just "cute" jealousy or the "does my butt look big?" Insecurity, then you yourself have an issue of trust and lack of self-love because you under value yourself to feel such ways
Probably, if you are acting too overbearing. Here's the thing. People say jealous as if it is always bad. They act like people should go through their lives and never feel jealous as if it is some kind of evil and something is wrong with you if you feel jealous. It is a normal human emotion with love, happiness, anger, fear, joy... it is a human emotion all people have.
I suppose it boils down to, is your guy a good guy, is he loyal and true and is he not doing anything to make you jealous and you are just having an issue and feeling jealous for now reason at all and stressing him out? Are you being unfair and too upset when he's given you no reason to be upset? If so, yes it would probably be healthy for the relationship if you could work through that and to let constant flare ups of jealousy go.
... or is he constantly pushing the boundaries in your relationship, is he constantly interacting with women in borderline questionable or flirty ways and setting off your natural instinct to feel jealous of too much attention or time spent with other women? Is he really doing things that make you feel jealous? Then the problem is with him.
The fact that you feel jealousy isn't an automatic declaration that there is some problem with you, it kind of depends on why you feel jealous and whether he is doing things that would reasonably make a mate feel jealous or whether you are feeling jealous for no reason at all.
Yeah. If you show your insecurities to a guy too much he will lose some/all of his attraction to you eventually OR he will just get tired of it and tune you out so you’re only hurting yourself
There is ZERO room for any, even the tiniest amount, of jealousy in a relationship. I will not put up with even a little. It is a cancer that will destroy any relationship. If you can't trust your partner then you shouldn't be with them.
Your partner should not be making you feel jealous. I personally don't believe that jealousy is healthy in a lasting relationship. If they care enough and love you they would not want you to feel jealous. Jealousy is part of human nature. But it's a negative one that your partner should want to help you avoid. As for insecurities... that's mostly you. I do think that relationships are stronger when you aren't an insecure person.
Maybe, some people do like that personality and some don’t. The best tip I can give you is to ask him/her what does he/she thinks about shyness or so and guess from an answer or just ask him/her directly
Absolutely. Any relationship built on insecurities and jealousy won't last long. Take it from firsthand experience.
It most likely should... No one likes a crazy girlfriend...
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What Girls Said 8
Yes it definitely will. Confidence is sexy, jealousy will just fuck up the whole relationship. Be jealous but not too jealous
Probably, yes. Insecurity and jealousy can wear a person down. It removes the fun and becomes exhausting. Often it makes you feel controlled.
Is there a reason why you’ve been feeling that way? Has he done or shown something that has been throwing you off?
Yes it will be a lot better. Trust your partner a little bit of trust goes a long way
To what extent? If you're asking then it's probably excessive so I'm going to go with yes
It will be better
Yes it will definitely improve! My realtionship pretty much ruined because I was like that and would pick stupid petty fights and it pushed him away and he lost feelings and now I’d do anything to take it all back. First of all, you just have to sit back and think “is this really something worth getting upset over?” before you say anything to him.
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