If men are expected to pay on dates should women be expected to cook and give him bjs when ever he wants?

In a way its like your paying just to spend time with her like an escort but with out the benefits. www.google.com/.../...gives-very-blunt-8263822.amp
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  • That's sick. If you think all women are hoes then don't date women. Plain and simple. If you asked her to date you, obviously it's going to be seen that you will treat her. Otherwise, make your statement clear that you refuse to pay for her and she needs to bring her own money. How you choose to treat a person says a lot about you. That's why I tell people to start as friends first and get to know them. Stop dating random strangers who ask for your number and shows interest.

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    • If she never offers to pay she's saying she has more value over you and your paying for her time. You pay an escort for time not so pretty much the same thing

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    • You don't have to have sex with an escort if you pay for an hour you could just talk or go on a date if you want etc. Escort you pay for time hooker you just fuck and leave

    • Well, it doesn't matter. Anything that has to do with sex is still something you pay for. A girlfriend or boyfriend should not be used for that.

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  • Personally I would help pay or pay it all. And girls cooking and cleaning is a bs stereotype I hate. The stereotype that women should be like that I believe that women shouldn’t be like trophy’s or treated like crap they should be treated like our equals

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    • So if you say we should be equal 50/50 Then why would we pay for the whole datr

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    • Is cooking and cleaning not a nice thing

    • Okay dude I’m a nice guy and I treat a woman better than I treat myself do you know why

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What Girls Said 12

  • You might want to double check your math bro https://youtu.be/i1_YsCrokfQ

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    • So feminists want equality but also want special treatment?
      What sorcery is that?

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    • So why would bracelets necklaces and rings on a women be any different. I think you have issues with men and are the biggest troll of them all on here gtfo 😂

    • Because women buy all of those things for specific outfits. I have a set of shoes and a necklace that are for one outfit and one outfit only

  • I don’t see why paying for something and blowjobs go hand in hand? (I’m sure there’s a pun to be made there somewhere 😂)

    If a man pays for something, that definitely isn’t going to make me more likely to suck his dick lol.

    With that being said I don’t expect the man to pay anyway, sure it’s sweet if they do, but I always offer to pay for myself and am more than happy to do so 😊

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  • I don't think I know any girl that expects a guy to always pay... But then I don't happen to have any friends that are hookers.

    If a girl expects you to pay all the time she definitely owes you something. Possibly not a bj, as she doesn't technically owe anyone her body, but that would be a perfectly fine exchange in my eyes. As long as she returns it in some way.

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  • I don't think paying a dinner would be enough to not only get the woman to cook for you but also give you a bj when you feel like it.
    That said, I don't expect men to pay on dates, we always split

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    • But if you pay for her meal can't she make you a meal out of appreciation

    • Of course, if she wants to. But don't pay for a meal expecting something in return

  • I never knew paying for food (lmao McDonalds?) equates to the talent of cooking and sexual favors.

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    • Who said anything about McDonald's why would anyone take a date there. I'm talking about 15$ plus dates. Also cooking doesn't take talent it's easy

    • Try cooking a fine ass meal, my man.

  • Yes. Of course. Because your $5 meal is worth it. You should use that as your opening line. Don’t cry like a little bitch when you get laughed at.

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    • No not 5 dollars silly more like 15$ then I get my fuck sucked

  • I think that's called an "arrangement",
    Sugar daddies and sugar babies do the same, daddy pays for sugar baby to be pampered, pay for dinner, clothes, everything, sugar baby in return gives company, often sex/bjs whenever he wants.

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    • Hmm... interesting where can I find these so called sugar babies? Are you taking applications?

    • What would you call a girl who gets all stuff payed for but doesn't give the benifits back of being a sugar baby

  • That's a nice gesture if he pays but I always offer them to split. Though most of the time they insist that they want to pay. Georgian men, you know.

    However, I know some girls who refuse dating guys unless he is paying all the time. I don't really like it.

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    • You never insist to pay all of it too?

    • @Kenni I don't really have enough money to pay for both of us. I insist on paying for my part. If I had a permanent income I might have paid for him sometimes. But now that I don't have permanent income and mostly my parents give me money, I am not gonna pay for guys who asked me out with the money of my parents.

    • Some guys even take it as an insult if I offer them to split. I remember one of them got really annoyed and told me "I am a man, I am paying. I wouldn't take you on a date if I didn't have enough money to pay for both of us". I let him pay. Most men in Georgia are like that, unless you are already in a relationship. In this case they might let you pay sometimes.

  • Nope, men just shouldn't pay for their date unless they're totally cool with doing so. It's dumb to have to pay for someone else's meal just because you have a dick, so just refuse. If she didn't bring money, that's her problem.

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    • This 1 girl on here said this guy was going to pay for the date. Then she offered the guy to split it and he agreed. Then she went off to say he's so cheap! Your thoughts

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    • I think that the idea that someone not wanting to pay the whole bill when they only ate half of it is perfectly reasonable and they shouldn't be considered cheap for doing so. Don't offer to pay for something if you're not totally happy about it, regardless of whether you're male or female.

  • We're not prostitutes. But thanks.

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  • I think the one with the higher lifetime earning potential is going to be the one who is asked to pay until we get all that mess straightened out, societally.

    But I also find most women I know to be pretty happy with creative free/cheap dating so long as the guy doesn't do it in a way that makes it seem like he doesn't value the woman, especially when they are young and no one is expected to have much money. Even a couple on food stamps can make a little picnic and go to the park, or catch a free program at the public library.

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    • I feel like even If the women is making more she still expects him to pay like 90% of the time. It's 2017 plenty of women make more money then guys

    • Well, when I paid the rent and all the bills plus bought him a car, he could only contribute by the small amounts we spent on dates, so yes, he did still pay for dates, because his earnings were very low. It made him feel better about what he could contribute.

  • You are right

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What Guys Said 2

  • Nah, men shouldn't pay for dates. That why tinder and male proustition and all this kind of business is growing. Because men dont want to go on dates just Netflix and chill. Until women paying for dates is accepted as normal. Dates are going to continue loosing there appeal.

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  • Daily Mirror... that is all

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