I live in Jefferson City Missouri
So, I have known this boy since I was 11 and liked him since I was 12. He is white, I am black. He is perfectly my type and I THOUGHT I was his. I want an actual relationship with this boy, but all he does is talk about sex. Im not a prude, I like talking about it too but alllll the time is a little much. Its like he doesn’t want to talk about anything else. It hurts to think all he wants is sex from me, but I just feel like him getting what he wants and then leaving will feel much worst. Sorry of this doesn’t make much sense its been a long night.
If anyone needs more info I am happy to give more. Also he knows how I feel about my virginity thats why its odd he talks to me like he's going to get some easily 🤷🏾♀️
So my question to guys is honestly does he just want sex and thats it?
And girls have you dealt with anyone like this before? How did you handle it?
Most Helpful Guy
He might be into you, but only in terms of sexual interest. If you're 19 then he must be 18, it's normal for boys of your age to be hellbent on sex, but if he were considerate and understanding, he would stop talking about it that often. If he cared for you, your soul I mean, he would try to develop emotional bond, not sexual.
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Most Helpful Girl
Sweetheart. The guy is definitely interested in sex. But also trying to get you to be jealous. Just based on him knowing your virginity. But also if you do end up having sex it could go either way. But definitely gets awkward.
Am not a master in this. But if there is something just let me know..