An example that I see on here a lot-- Studies confirm that emotionally unavailable men are perceived to be more attractive. My take on this is that I'm simply myself. If I feel emotion towards her, I'll let her know. That's all there is to it for me. It's not like I'm handing out this emotional side of me to anyone either, but I'll damn if I'm going to try and act a certain way to come across as aloof when I feel something real. I'm just a very straightforward guy. It's beyond me as to how guys have these rules of not texting a woman for x amount of days because they want to seem busy.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes. I think approaching dating as though its a game of chess is transparent and unattractive. I have no interest in people who have a rule book. I just want them to be themselves unapologetically and act natural.1
Most Helpful Guy
See l kind of do what you do in a way. I just don’t give f*ck. I don’t try to decode or decipher anything. I have uni for that don’t need more HW. If she likes me geat if she doesn’t then fine. It is what it is, am not going to play some jeti mind games to figure out how to “unlock” her. I have other things that are more important and need to focus my energy on those.1