This year, I lost 4 crushes to other guys. I typically try to get over it by making up reasons to hate the girl, but it's hard this time.
My only other idea is devote myself to becoming so attractive that I become a lost opportunity for her (as she is for me).
Both of these methods make me feel like crap and I hate feeling so dependant on the approval of these bs people to feel confident.
How do you get over your lost crushes?
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Well, there are several solutions to this problem, none of which are ones you came up with. You can get over crushes by accepting that you're not going to be with them, and moving on with your life. But more importantly, you stop letting something like religion hold you down. Don't let a several millennia old book tell you how to live your life. Think for yourself, and make your own life choices, based on what makes you happy.1