I don't party. I rarely drink. I like quiet, being alone sometimes but best of all having someone to be with/talk to...
She parties. She probably drinks a lot. Seems she has lots of friends.
I've been noticing lately she's trying to catch my eyes. Like get my attention. But never seems to approach me (maybe because she thinks I'm not interested in her).
Anyways I thought I would always go for the shy introverted types but I'm ruining my chances etc. My standards are probably too high. Should I try and give her a chance?
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Okay, first off, as an extroverted girl myself, OF COURSE YOU CAN BE TOGETHER! It would just require some adjustment to the types of activities you two are used to and a little compromise but you could totally do it!
Second, I don't know if it's healthy for her to constantly be partying and getting drunk and if that's the only way she knows how to have a good time I'm not sure if you two would work well. Those kinds of people are more likely to drag themselves into situations that are unhealthy and it seems like you know you want to avoid that.
If she really wants to be with you, she'll likely start picking up things unexpected and out of her element to get your attention, like maybe sitting out of a conversation she'd normally really into just so she could be around you.1
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