When you have a boyfriend, who should be your #1 priority, boyfriend or best friend?

  • boyfriend
    Vote A
  • best friend
    Vote B
  • neither
    Vote C
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't make someone your boyfriend unless he is ALREADY your #1 priority. Problem solved. He shouldn't magically become your #1 priority just because you put a new title on your relationship with him. It should be something far pre-established.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Unless he puts a ring on it, your boyfriend is replaceable and you've gotta understand that mindset if you want him to respect you. Don't be impossible, but don't ditch your best friend over a boy.

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What Guys Said 8

  • Close friends always come first. Within reason of course. Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean they have to put you over people they've known for years. It's not a fair expectation. BUT, there is a reasonable expectation for them to prioritize you in certain circumstances relating to your relationship such as dates, birthdays and the like.

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  • You 11 guys who selfishley put yourself above your partners friends should be ashamed, girls need their friends as much as their boyfriends. My sister has a boyfriend but she also has a life long friend who she likes spending time with, a guy should never force a girl to give up time with her friends just to please himself.

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  • The truth is that friends are there no matter what, not all but most are, but a bf/gf can leave and if you don't have anyone close like a best friend... It's a really hard time

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  • It depends. A new boyfriend or casual relationship should probably be second-to-friends but a serious one should be put first.

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  • If your partner has like 40% priority, your close friends should be at 39%
    Less, but not by much.

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  • It should be 50/50.

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  • None.. Your true blood family should

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  • Neither

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What Girls Said 9

  • My boyfriend is my best friend. Problem solved.

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  • Yourself should be the #1 priority, and then family, friends and s/o depends on their role in your life

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  • With my current best friend I put her first but with my ex best friend I put my boyfriend first so it kinda depends on how close you and your best friend are

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  • neither. your life's purpose should be your #1 priority.

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  • Call me crazy, but I think your number 1 priority should be yourself.

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  • Yourself.

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  • #1 priority should always be yourself

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  • You should be your number one priority

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  • Yourself

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