Most Helpful Guy
Listen to your friends. I had a guy friend who tried with a girl like that. She was nice at first but slowly showed her true self to him. Latter being able to obviously manipulate him in public. When ever we mentioned how much she manipulate s him. He only defended her and wanted her more. Poeple in love won't listen so listen before you completely fall for him.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't let other people's opinions dictate your love life. You're a big girl and you can choose to find out what he's like for yourself instead of listening to everyone else. If they have a problem with that, fuck em. And if he does turn out to be shit, just kick him to the curb.