In love, I️ feel guilty about I️t. At the time, I️ didn’t feel guilty. But, I️ feel telling him will just do more harm than good. Me having sex with someone else, happened almost a year ago.
Most Helpful Guy
Probably because you wanted a relationship to him and you wanted him as your boyfriend, your heart was somewhat bound to this guy as you gave your body to another man.
I'm confused, what WERE you two doing all that time? You were with him as in dating him but you just weren't an official couple? Or am I mistaken and you weren't dating him during the time you started going out with others? If you were dating him (were you having sex with the guy during that time too... sex with your boyfriend) I'd call that kind of questionable behavior if you were dating your boyfriend (but just not full on committed yet) and having actual sex with someone else.
If you are actually having sex I don't consider it honorable to date anyone other than who you are having sex with. Once you have sex than you are pretty much bound to see things through with that person to see if things work out long term and you don't have sex with anyone else during that time... not until you completely part ways with someone you having sex with.
So you are dating this guy, you want him to be your boyfriend but he isn't ready to call it that but then you go have sex with someone else while still seeing your (now) boyfriend? If that were me I wouldn't be ok with it. I actually wouldn't want to date anyone who was having sex with someone else. See things through with that other guy... don't be having sex with both of us. That's really kind of gross.
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Most Helpful Girl
I guess you feel this way cause now you're in love with him.
But to that time like you said, you were single and you had everyright to do what you did. You did nothing wrong, you didn't cheated on him and who knows what he did in that time.
It's fine, don't be harsh on yourself! He didn't asked you to wait and you were not obligated to wait for someone who wasn't sure about you to that time