I let him back in & I found out?
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Yes I think it was foolish to let him back in but I also think you were just caught up in the moment of old times and truly appreciated him. Your heart was in the right place but with the wrong person.
He used you for sex despite you telling him all of what happened in the past, he disrespected you. He has a baby on the way with a woman yet he was willing to so easily sleep with another woman, he disrespected her. Of course he never mentioned a baby... he probably led you to believe he was single too. He's so selfish, just there to satisfy his own needs and leaves when things get tough. That makes me feel angry, you'd feel so used. What a fucking asshole.
You made mistake but is ok, your heart was in a good place - although naïve. You need to learn to see the whole picture of people and not take them at face value and be too trusting.
Cut him off of your life. Now.
He clearly doesn't want you around only because you are a great person (even though I am sure you are!!). But you have him what he wanted: sex. And now even though he says he understands that you want to take sex out of the equation, he knows you gave it to him once and that he'll be able to get it again.
Girl, delete him, block him, stop all contact. This is going nowhere.
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