flaked on the second date. I haven’t heard from him for 3 days and today he’s texting me asking what I am up to tonight and I just said I was going for dinner (I am, with some girlfriends) and he replied enjoy your date 😉
I don’t want to play games or anything but since he’s been so flakey I don’t feel I should reassure him it’s not a date.
What would be a good aloof response?
Most Helpful Guy
Don't respond !!
Most Helpful Girl
If he said that, then it's time you moved on. That's a guy's cue that he's saying 'I'm packing my emotional investment's and I'm outta here.' to you. So that is a jealous response. But look. He flaked on the 2nd date right? You need to make it clear that you aren't here to play games, and if he has an issue about something, then he needs to be honest with you. Get straight to the point. To be aloof with him. It's immaturity and it's too premature of a situation to even be suggesting that. He'll just think something is wrong with you.